Is the person I am with my soul mate? Many times in a reading, I am asked if their current partner is a soul mate, or if they will ever meet their soul mate in this lifetime.
How will you know your soul mate when you do meet them? We all want to meet that person who loves and accepts us so much and we feel the same way.
Is this what a soul mate relationship is like? And what if you never meet your soul mate. Are you doomed to okay relationships but never that special connection? What if your soul mate is already married?!
First, a misconception about soul mates. Some people say that you only have one soul mate. Actually, you have several. And they are not all of the opposite sex! You have friends, family, colleagues and intimate partners who may be soul mates. So for those who ask will I ever find love, know that there are soul mates out there for you!
There is a strong resonance when you meet your soul mate. You may feel an immediate connection with them or that you already know them. Sometimes this feeling happens because a person is part of your soul group or soul family. If you’ve ever found yourself wondering why a person is in your life, it’s possible there could be a soul connection there, or simply something to learn.
A soul group or soul family is comprised of the people in your life. You tend to reincarnate over and over with them, in different roles.
The members of a soul group help each other to grow spiritually. This means that sometimes they will be there as a support and sometimes as a catalyst for change.
They may be in your life for any length of time. Your soul mate is part of your soul group. Many people feel that when they meet their soul mate it is divinely decreed. In other words, they feel they were fated to meet.
Although you may meet your soul mate, unfortunately, you do not always end up with that person. Sometimes your life paths may cross but may not travel together.
This could happen be because you are not in the right circumstances to have a committed relationship with that person. Or, for whatever reason, you are contracted to experience different things in life that does not require you to have a relationship with that particular soul mate. We know very little of the overall divine blueprint.
But don’t despair! Soul mates will come together when the time is right to do so. Even if you are not in a relationship with your soul mate, you can still work at creating harmony, respect and love in your current relationship.
But when you do meet your soul mate, there will be no doubt. You’ll feel that you have never loved anyone as you love your soul mate. There is a natural compliment and connection that happens where you feel complete.
When you are not around them, you miss them deeply. Being with them makes life more enjoyable. Even if you have a brief relationship with them, they leave an impression on you that never leaves you. And your soul yearns for that connection again.
Life is not meant for us to wait unfilled for a soul mate to come. There are many people who have fulfilling relationships with people who are not soul mates. What is important is that we love each other. We can create meaningful connections in the relationships that we have.