I did a mediumship reading today with a new client. She wanted to connect with the spirit of her unborn baby. Unfortunately, this child never had the opportunity to be born. Where do the spirits of the unborn go? And is there a reason why they didn’t incarnate? What happens to unborn baby spirits?
When my client was talking to me on the phone to book her appointment, I got the sense that this was a male child. The morning of the appointment, I got a couple of names coming through. I kept this in mind for our phone session.
Although she never knew the gender of her baby, this client had a strong feeling that it was male. And the names that I picked up on began with the same sound as the name she had chosen. Sometimes I get the beginning sounds of names, but sometimes I get the actual name itself. It depends on a few things – the energy of the spirit, if we are able to match vibrations well to communicate, and the openness of my client. I’m happy to provide some peace to parents wondering what happens to unborn baby spirits.
This child in spirit had no sadness, no guilt or anger. What came through was a gentle love. He first showed himself as a blue energy hovering around my client. Then he showed himself as a baby and a young man – what he would have looked like had he been born and grown up.
When a child does not complete the incarnation process – whether by choice of the mother or by other complications – the spirit of the child returns to the other side. Sometimes that spirit still visits us. Sometimes there will be another opportunity for this child to be born at a later time.
Just as we humans experience things in order to help us grow and transform, spirit also has its own agenda of experience for growth and transformation. Learning does not stop just because we transition to the other side.
There is a divine plan in place. From our human perspective, it is hard to understand why certain things happen. From a spirit perspective, all things are perfect.
There is a reason why this child was not born. Perhaps he wanted to experience the beginning of the process but was not meant to complete it. Perhaps it was for his mother’s benefit for her growth.
Either way, they will always be connected. They are part of the same soul group. They have incarnated together many, many times before. And, while she can learn to connect with him while she is alive, he will be there to greet her on the other side when she passes.
The separation is only an illusion although it may feel real as we are in this dense reality of human form. Love is the energy that connects us. It doesn’t matter if we are both in form, both in spirit, or one in form and one in spirit. The connection of love can never be broken.