When Our Pets Die

spirit pets

We love our pets just like people. They are forgiving, unconditionally loving and unfortunately, have a shorter lifespan.

What happens when they die? Do they cross over to the other side right away? Do pet spirits come back to see us? Will they be there to greet us when we die? And what about the question of reincarnation and past lives?

I remember reading about a woman who was in the hospital waiting to die. Her cat had passed into spirit already. Every night this woman would dream of her cat running toward her. As she got closer and closer to death, her cat would run closer and closer toward her in her dream.

The night before she died, the cat finally reached her. I am certain the spirit of her cat came to take her home — help her cross into the light.

Unlike people, animals do not have emotional baggage or earthly attachments that keep them stuck. They cross into the light right away.

When my cat Miso needed to be put down, I asked my mom to come take her across. Within seconds after she died, her spirit jumped right into my mom’s arms, and they left.

Since then, Miso has visited frequently. Although Miso is in spirit, my cat in the living, Chowder, does not always like it when she comes around. He always did like being number one!

Don’t worry — you don’t need to ask for anyone to come to cross your pet over. I’ve seen angels appear at the time. Just as we never transition alone, neither do our beloved animal companions.

If you want to have contact with your pet’s spirits, there are a few things you can do.

1. Ask them to come around more often.
2. Ask them to visit you in your dreams.
3. Create a sacred space in your mind (meditation) and ask their spirit to step in. Don’t worry if you have trouble visualizing. You can feel the space around you and wait for their presence.

Remember not to doubt. If you get a sense that your pet is around, they probably are.

One of my friends who is very connected to one of her dogs, asked me if her dog was with her in a past life. Yes it’s possible. We belong to what’s called a ‘Soul Group’.

A soul group is made of particular souls who tend to reincarnate together over and over. It’s very possible that pets are part of our soul group and that we have had other lives with them.

From what I understand, animals tend to come back as the same kind of animal — a cat to a cat, a dog to a dog. I’m not sure if they can (or want) to change forms — for example, a dog to a cat. If you have any thoughts on this, please let me know.

I know the day will come when I will be reunited with all of my family in spirit — both human and animal. Until that time, I’ll enjoy seeing and sensing them as they visit now, in spirit.

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Selina Khan, Toronto Psychic Medium and Reiki Master
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  • Sylvia May 14, 2012, 9:00 am

    I feel in my heart my dog is a “human” spirit, I treat her of course, like a dog, I do all the things a dog needs, she accepts me as her protector and friend and leader. But in a strange way that soul feels like a mother to me. Really like a mother! I sense her Soul is complex, and quite on a level with a Human soul. I dread losing her in my life, need reassurance that I shall for certain join her in the Spirit World.

  • admin May 16, 2012, 3:36 am

    Hi Sylvia, I completely understand! Yes she will be there when you cross over. It is hard knowing that our animal companions do not have the life span that humans have. We are blessed to have them in our lives for the time we have with them. The relationship does not end when one of us crosses over – just as humans have bonds that go beyond physical form, so do humans and our “pets”.
    Selina

  • Jessica April 18, 2013, 8:13 am

    I lost Benji to very agressive cancerous tumors in December and my fiance and I had to make the very hard decision to put him to sleep intensely trusting that in doing so we were sending him off to a better place (heaven) where he would n longer feel pain. Is this true? Today I came across your website as I witnessed my sweet little woody 5 months old, get hit by a car who never turned back. He ran out after a dog while he was going into my home. It has been a hard day and I have been seeking comfort in affirming that there is a dog heaven and that can visit us. I want to thank you for your writings on this page, It has helped comfort me and serve as a guide on how to reach out to both Woofy and Benji. What is the reason for woody leaving our side (fiance, pepe (his friend/brother), and me so soon? I adopted him from a shelter in Feb, and gave him so much love and good care. I even told my fiance how much I loved him the other day. I could just stare at him and feel the greatest degree of love and peace in my heart. Is there a purpose for them when they leave so young and happy? Could it be Benji wanted to meet him can this happen? They both loved toys. Pepe has a very unique personality. I am not sure what level he is but he certainly is more independent and finicky, yet ever precious. Benji and woody were playful, always happy and easy going, liked strangers. Could it be woody… I am just trying to make sense of the tragedy and doing what I can to replace the images of the last moments of woody;s life with images of when he was most happy and images of where he is now. I know he will always live in my heart and beside my spirit. Any thoughts would eb appreciated if you have a moment. Otherwise, if not, please know your writing brought me some solace and I will pay closer attention to pepe’s observations going forward. One last note in the last few days I would notice woody (who is mostly active) stand still and just stare at the ground. he did this on a few occasions I can recall only within the last couple days. Thank you and blessings to you for the love and compassion that has been part in driving you to take the time to write your article on Heaven for pets.
    In memory of and with eternal unconditional love for my babies, Woody & Benji.
    Jessica (John and Pepe)

  • admin April 20, 2013, 2:49 am

    Hi,

    I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Our pets are more than just pets, aren’t they? They are family.

    From my experience, the spirits of pets leave their bodies right. They do not hang around and suffer. They do not have the baggage that humans have – their spirits are quite pure and they are filled with unconditional love.

    They often come and visit us in spirit and from my personal experience, can do this pretty well right away.

    You may have needed your puppy to come and remind you how to open your heart back up after grieving the loss of your previous companion. Sometimes they are only meant to be with us for a certain time.

    Thank you for sharing this with us. Blessings to you during this time of grief.

    Selina

  • Ell June 15, 2013, 5:37 am

    Hi Selina, I have always wondered what happens to the souls of all the poor animals who are slaughtered. I know this is a very sad and unpleasant subject but I wonder about this a lot, especially as they may experience a lot of fear and pain before passing. I pray the poor things find healing and peace on the other side? I hope you do not mind me posting this in the pets section as I do not wish to upset anyone. Ell

  • admin June 15, 2013, 7:00 am

    Hi Ell,

    Good question. I go to a sushi place where they cut up lobsters into pieces while they are live (in the kitchen after they are just out of the tank) and then throw them on the grill in front of you. It really bothers me – especially when the pieces still move when they are being cooked. People think that if the brain is severed there is no perception of pain, but we have been learning that consciousness is not (only) in the brain and that each cell has it’s own awareness. I often say a prayer when I see someone ordering this so that the lobster will feel no pain and that its spirit is released right away.

    I haven’t been to a place where slaughtering is done. However, of the few farms I have visited, I have not seen spirits of animal roaming on the earth plane. I would assume that Divine Love and Intelligence would assist each one to the light no matter what the suffering as I believe their spirits are very pure.

  • Vivien Moorhouse October 9, 2013, 7:49 am

    Can I just say to everyone who loves Animals …. I have been so very lucky over the years to have had several Psychic after death experiences with pets. When I was still in my teens & sadly my beloved dog passed away at the vets – I was completely broken hearted couldn’t stop crying. – One afternoon I came home from work & the house was empty, – I went up stairs to fetch something – & suddenly & loudly heard her Bark at the foot of the stairs – I ran down but couldn’t see anything. Some years later We had got a 12 month old kitten – who got outside and sadly was run over – about 2 weeks after her passing as I walked along our long hall – I suddenly heard her paws running behind me – & as I stopped to turn round – I felt her fluffy form run into the back of my Ankle. Since then I have felt one of my deceased cats jump on my bed & walk across my legs – then the feel – and sound of her jumping down onto the carpet. – So yes …. They do have souls like us that continue after physical death – just send your love & thoughts out to them.

  • barry waterfield October 17, 2013, 9:20 am

    Like children who pass over, it is my belief that pets other animals and even we ourselves have a purpose to fulfil. Most particularly I am interested in the spirit of your dog Woofy. It could well be that his purpose was to comfort you for a brief while as the moderator has suggested, but I think it is equally possible that he needed you for a brief while, perhaps to experience an aspect of love that has been missing from his various lives up to date or perhaps to heel his soul in some way, maybe after a bad life in the past. Whatever the reason I think you have to take it that the given task was completed and he has now been able to pass over comfortably thanks, as much as anything , to the love and care you gave him.

  • barry waterfield October 17, 2013, 9:37 am

    I think you have to remember that it is not only animals who suffer cruelty. At the moment of death there would be very little difference between the experience of a Lobster in a rather brutal restaurant and a first world war soldier cut to pieces by machine gun fire whilst alive and caught on the wire. One boy of sixteen (little more than a child) died in precisely this way in-front of my grandfather. It is my belief that these experiences are all apart of our learning. Ultimately this planet has to be recognised as rather a brutal place, we only ever think of it as beautiful because we are near the top of the food chain. If animals that are slaughtered for human satisfaction gradually cause at least some of us to think more deeply about all sentient beings then once again a lesson has been learnt, but don’t expect too much from life on this earth, we are on a bus ride and at times the journey is horribly uncomfortable.

  • Jay January 21, 2014, 10:27 pm

    Hello,
    As I’ve heard that when people pass away, their loved ones whom have passed
    before them come to greet them and to guide them across… I was wondering
    who comes to greet our beloved pets when they finally pass away ? I have looked
    around the Internet and can’t find any kind of answers on this question…

    Who, or what ever they are have my highest respect anyway.

    Thankyou

  • admin January 22, 2014, 12:09 am

    Hi Jay, Thank you for your question. When I’ve had to put down my pets, I’ve seen different types of spirits come to greet them. I had asked my mom to help my little cat Miso cross over and indeed she did. It’s one of the first blogs I’ve written. I’ve also seen Angelic beings come. I know that other animal spirits can also be of help. When Miso crossed and returned shortly thereafter to visit, she was being “shown the ropes” so to speak by another cat spirit – a cat that used to belong to my husband. No one transitions alone. If we only knew how much love and support there is around this process, we would have a different view of death.

    Selina

  • Jay January 22, 2014, 2:57 am

    Thanks Selina … Very warm and comforting to know 🙂

  • Leanna March 17, 2014, 3:49 am

    A week ago today I had to put my baby (kitty), Austin to sleep because a very tragic and unfortunate accident. He was only 8 months old and was literally like my as I’m sure many can relate. I miss him so much it hurts! Im wondering if the rainbow bridge is real and if my baby did cross over can he still be with me? I had him cremated so he could be home at peace but a few people said I lost him because of that and now I’m torn even more! I want my baby to be able to visit me (which i believe he has) and i want to know he will meet me when it’s my time

  • Leanna March 17, 2014, 3:49 am

    Like my child/is my child

  • admin March 19, 2014, 11:40 pm

    Hi Leanna,

    I’m so sorry that you only had Austin for a short time. The rainbow bridge is a metaphor for the connection that you will always have for Austin. There is more to it with the colour and frequency vibrations and the way spirit travels, but that isn’t important to discuss right now.

    Yes, your kitty spirit will be able to still visit you although he has crossed to the other side. Plus, it really doesn’t matter if he was cremated or not – that was just the material part that his spirit was using while on the earth. His spirit left his body long before the cremation. As you have such a strong bond with him, I would be surprised if he wasn’t there to greet you when it’s your time to cross. If it makes your heart more at peace, just tell him you would like him to be there – his spirit will hear you. But I’m sure he already has plans to do so.

    Many blessings,
    Selina

  • Anna July 30, 2014, 11:59 am

    My cat, Nyx died a couple of days ago and it was, and still is, a heavy load on the entirety of my family, as it was very sudden. She was ran over in front of our house, literally about a foot away from being safe and sound in the yard. Recently, I have been seeing and hearing things that she was did when she was here in physical form. The most recent incident was when I was walking my dog, I thought I heard her behind me. Of course, she wasn’t behind me, but I still turned around, disappointment heavily sinking in as I realized that she would never walk behind us again. Another instance is when I was laying in bed and I felt the end of my bed move as if she climbed in bed with me, another thing she always did when she was here. I have quite frequently wondered if she is still hanging around the neighborhood, visiting her human family, and still on the prowl in the spirit world. I miss her dearly, as she was my absolute best friend in the entire world. Everyday I pray that our souls will be reunited again either in this life or the next.

  • Selina July 31, 2014, 1:08 am

    Hi Anna,

    I’m so sorry to hear of Nyx’s sudden passing. Rest assured that what you are experiencing is real. Many people sense their pets after they have transitioned from their bodies. Trust what you see and hear. Spirit is real and you have a bond with her that goes beyond physical form. She loves you and will continue to visit the family on and off.

    Yes they visit people they love. But there are more interesting places to go in spirit form than only hanging around the neighborhood she used to be in – as you too will find out when you reunite in spirit form with her one day and start exploring the universe together.

    Thank you for sharing your experiences with us. Knowing that we are not alone in our experiences gives us comfort. Bless you and your family.

    Selina

  • Randi August 14, 2014, 12:42 am

    I recently ran over my cat. I am having a hard time dealing with it. He touched my heart in more ways than I could have ever imagined!! I look around my house and feel as though I can still see him in all his favorite places. I feel so lost without him!!

    Just before I was getting ready to leave my house he was so happy. My husband picked him up off our bed and was holding him. I gave him a kiss on the head and he followed me out the door. I had to go back inside and when I turned around he was doing his usual rolling around on the porch. Then he followed meninside. I never saw him follow me back out the door. I street the car and slowly backed out of the driveway. I thought I ran over a rock. But then all of a sudden there was my precious kitty and it was to late. I don’t know what to do without him. Please help!!

  • Selina August 14, 2014, 1:09 am

    Hi Randi,

    What an unfortunate thing to happen! I’m so sorry and I know you must be feeling loss and guilt. Animals have very pure spirits. They have a purpose. They are often in our lives to teach us to open our hearts. All living beings on this planet have their time to go. When we have circumstances of death which are difficult to understand, then sometimes we need to have faith that all things have a purpose in the Divine plan.

    I know you miss your dear kitty, but he is able to visit you as he wants in his spirit form. You are always connected to him. Give yourself some time to grieve. Losing a pet can be just as devastating as losing a family member or best friend. For that’s what they are, aren’t they? Part of the family. Eventually you will smile when you remember him and the special bond you had with him while he was here, and the special bond that you still have with him while he is in spirit. When it is your time to go to the other side, then you will be together again. Until then, you can speak to his spirit (out loud or in your head) and he will hear you.

    I wish you all the best,
    Selina

  • Erin Durcan August 26, 2014, 3:37 am

    My dog Prince, passed away on Friday (3 days ago), due to what they said was Congenital Congestive Heart Failure. We didn’t know he had that before and thought he might have just had asthma. When I brought him to the Vet, he couldn’t breathe hardly and they said his heart rate was 90, his tongue was blue and his blood pressure was low. They did CPR on him because he crashed at 30 and they got him back to 90 (it should have been over 100). A few minutes later, he crashed again, the Vet told me that it was kind of cruel to keep doing CPR on him this time because they weren’t able to bring him back. I agreed, because I didn’t want him to be in any pain or anything. They asked me if I wanted to see him after he had passed and I just couldn’t. I didn’t want to remember him like that. These few days have been SO hard and I feel like a part of me is gone. I feel like I abandoned Prince when I gave him to the Vet and never saw him again. I have been doing reading up on what happens after a dog passes and I have read that pets have souls. That after they pass away, their souls stay with us, visit us, etc. I had him cremated and he’s home now, but I haven’t felt him actually come visit me. I’m worried that he’s mad at me because of how everything happened and I’ll never get a visit from him. He was my best friend, my everything. Prince was the best dog ever. I had 7 of the best years of my life with him and I miss him so much that my heart hurts, literally.

  • Selina August 26, 2014, 4:31 am

    Hi Erin,

    I am so sorry to hear about Prince’s passing. Although we all have our time to go, it is never easy when our pets transition to the other side, and especially so under circumstances where the last moments are not peaceful.

    In all of my time connecting with animal spirits and my own furry one’s that have crossed over, I have never experienced anything except love. I highly doubt that Prince is mad at you. I also doubt that he has not come around. It’s very possible that because you are grieving so much right now, that you are just not perceiving him. Sometimes our emotions can make it harder to perceive spirit.

    Ask for him to come and visit you in your dreams if it’s easier for you to do that. In time, when you ask for his spirit to come and visit you while you are awake, you may be more open to knowing he’s there. Until then, just trust that you are just as loved by Prince as you love him and he is around.

    Many blessings,
    Selina

  • lizeth lopez September 14, 2014, 2:17 pm

    Hi

    I just read this and my lovely dog princess died sep 10,2014 we getting ready for school when I heard my sisters calling her name she didn’t got up she wasn’t breading and when my sister grabe her she felt hard. The they before she died I had a dream that she was climbing a mountain trying to get to the top and they took her I was trying to safe her but I couldn’t. Now yesterday I had this dream that she was here in my room in my bed. My mom told me that she opened her eyes when my dad was leaving for work and when she turns to the other side of the bed she saw her and hug her she says her eyes were open. What does this mean???????

  • Cathe September 22, 2014, 1:26 am

    I had to put down my cat Katie on 9-16-14. I had her for 16 years from kidney failure. She has visited me several times. I have felt her laying on my bed one time at night. Two nights ago, she woke up up out of a sleep playing and running in my living room (my living room is just right outside of my bedroom) last night, she visited me in my dreams. I got to hold her and hug her. She told me that she loved me and was ok. She looked so happy and healthy and had so much energy. It was comforting to me and pretty cool, though I dont think I will ever not miss her. She was part of my life for a long time. I am glad to really know she is well again and not sick.

  • Selina September 23, 2014, 1:55 am

    Hi Cathe,

    I am sorry to hear about the passing of your cat Katie, but I am so happy to hear how you have such a strong connection with her in spirit! She will continue to be a part of your life but now in a different way. You can always ask her spirit to come and visit you. I love that she comes in your dreams too.

    Blessings,
    Selina

  • Maddy Ramirez November 21, 2014, 12:15 am

    Selina,

    I am truly grateful that I came across this blog. 2 days ago, I had to say goodbye to my soulmate, my little cat Mushie after 15 years. It has proven to be the hardest loss I’ve ever felt. She had oral cancer and although she was always in happy spirits, I know she was suffering and “faking” being ok so that I would be ok. She literally was with me for everything I’d ever been through that molded me to be who I am today.

    I am having a hard time however coping with her loss. I held her until her last breath and then some the same way that we have held each other a billion times before. I felt her soul leave and I am so happy that she is in a better place now, not suffering and back to her beautiful happy self. Recently, I would say within the past year or 2 I have been spiritually awakening and trying to really get in tune with a higher level of consciousness. I have always felt connected to the spiritual word but never understood it until recently.

    Once Mushie passed, I started hearing a voice. It was very soft and delicate…exactly as I had always thought my tiny little sweetheart would sound if she could speak to me. Could this be her? I have heard this voice say, “I’m ok! I’m happy again! I can eat again, I don’t feel any pain”. Ive also heard this voice saying “I love you, I’m with you everywhere, please don’t be sad.” Is this all in my head or is it possible for me to actually be hearing her comfort me?

    I have been trying so hard to feel her but because I am so distraught about losing the best friend I ever had in my life, I feel as though I break down easily and can not focus on my meditation. Is there any advice that you can give me to help me get back on track and know that she in fact is there with me in spirit? Her cremains came back to us today, and although I have gone back to work to try to resume my normal routine, I do feel a bit at ease to know that she is home.

    Thank you in advance for your guidance and I am so thankful to have stumbled upon this blog.

    -Maddy

  • Selina November 21, 2014, 2:40 am

    Hi Maddy,

    Thank you for sharing your story with us about Mushie. Yes the sweet little voice you hear is her. In fact, she does sometimes sit with you when you meditate. You will always have a connection with her.

    I understand how difficult it can be to feel her energy when you are still missing her so much and in grief. This does change with time. Patience is needed as is allowing yourself to open up to having a new type of relationship with her in her spirit form. There is joy to be had here and this will come when you are ready. In the meantime, Mushie will continue to visit you.

    Try to think of the memories that make you smile. Ask for her to come travel with you in your dreams. Talk to her spirit, get to know her more intimately now that you can talk to her directly, and love her as you have always done. You may be surprised by her sense of humour!

    All the best,
    Selina

  • char November 21, 2014, 10:56 am

    This is wonderful. I just losteoporosis the best dof I have ever had. I always felt we were soulmates. I am so upset over it. I wonder if she misses m e as much as I miss her. I feel like I failed her in the end.

  • Maddy Ramirez November 21, 2014, 11:51 pm

    Selina,

    A million thank yous. Your response has really eased me and I appreciate your guidance. Now that I can be certain it is her that I am hearing, it is making every minute much more comforting and calming. I am going to keep up my meditation and work on my spiritual connection with my dear sweet mushie.

    I can not thank you enough, you have brought me back some peace that I was missing and being able to see her little urn and know that spiritually and symbolically she is here with me has helped me tremendously since yesterday.

    I wish you all the best and thank you again from the bottom of my heart. You are amazing! xoxo

    -Maddy

  • Lisa January 15, 2015, 6:27 pm

    I had to have my beautiful cat Cleo put to sleep yesterday I am totally devastated I don’t feel I will be happy again.She had been unwell for a while wasn’t eating did not respond to any treatment that the vets gave her they thought she had a cancer.
    I know it was the right thing to do but me and my husband feel so guilty is that normal
    She had no quality of life she could hardly walk vet said we needed to let her go.
    We gave her lots of tlc I hope she understands that we did it because we loved her.
    I wanted to know someone came for her I did not want her to be scared or on her own she loved us as we did her and she loved being at home.

  • Selina January 16, 2015, 12:48 am

    Hi Lisa,

    I am so sorry to hear about Cleo. You did everything you could to help her. Please don’t feel guilty about putting her down. Animals do not hold resentments. Their spirits are of a purer state. All of us, animals and people, understand things differently when we cross and none of us crosses alone. We are met by Angels, Guides, Family from the other side. There is so much love that surrounds us and I know that Cleo is very happy where she is.

    From my experience, when we put our pets down to save them from suffering, their spirits cross very quickly into the Light. They DO understand. They also return to visit us often and still enjoy being in our energy and company. She may visit you in your dreams as well.

    I keep seeing a beautiful light being that is very Angelic in quality and also a female in spirit as well that helped to greet Cleo and journey with her. But that’s just who was at the door so to speak. There are many others that are with her on the other side.

    All the best to you,
    Selina

  • Angie February 20, 2015, 8:19 am

    My cat passed away and I need to know do they
    Realize we did everything we could and how much
    We loved him

  • Selina February 24, 2015, 12:09 am

    Hi Angie,

    Sorry to hear about your cat passing away. Animals are very aware of our emotions. Your cat absolutely knows how much you love him and did for him. He would have sensed this while alive and especially now that he is in spirit form and can still visit you and see how you are doing.

    Take care,
    Selina

  • Leona March 6, 2015, 9:59 am

    Hi selina, my beautiful dog prince passed away a week ago. He was such a character and made me so happy. He died from congestive heart failure which didn’t get diagnosed until it was too far gone. He was nearly 6 yrs old. The vet put him on medication but it didn’t really help him at all. The night before the morning he died I knew in my heart he was going to go, I stayed with him all night and when the moment came I was completly heartbroken. . Prince was and still Is my best friend, iv lost a piece of me that I wont get back until I see him again. I hope he knows how much I loved him and how much he means to me, I hope he had a happy life with me. I hope he’ll be waiting for me when my time comes to pass over.

  • Lys March 8, 2015, 5:41 am

    Selina I am so grateful to find this blog post today. Yesterday I lost my beautiful little dog Holly. She was happy and healthy two weeks ago and then a very aggressive cancer came and took her away. She went through hell because her extreme pain was unmanageable even on the strongest doses of the strongest drugs. At the vets yesterday I was able to spend about 20 minutes sitting on the floor with her before the vet came in to put her down. She’d gotten a sedative injection but still she was shaking and afraid and bewildered. I didn’t think to call on anyone who’s passed over to come and meet her. I’m so worried she’s lost and alone out there somewhere because everything was so sudden and unexpected, like some discarnate spirit who doesn’t know where they are. This post and everyone’s contributions have been very comforting in my heartbroken state. I just want to know that Holly is ok, but I’m not sensitive to spirits at all and I don’t think I could perceive a visit from her. Thank you everyone, this has really helped

  • Selina March 9, 2015, 12:31 am

    Hi Lys,

    I am so sorry to hear that Holly had so much pain before passing. I know that she knew exactly how much you were trying to help her. Please don’t worry about her being lost in spirit. Even if you don’t ask for a spirit to help her cross, no one is without support, love and help when transitioning. Her spirit would have known that her time on the earth plane was ending. She is absolutely in the light, happy and pain free. Yes, she has already come to see you and although you may not be able to perceive, if you ask, she may be able to come to you in a different way – like a dream or an impression.

    Thank you for sharing this with us.

    Many blessing to you,
    Selina

  • Selina March 9, 2015, 12:43 am

    Hi Leona,

    Thank you for sharing this with us. I understand how it feels when you feel so far away from someone you were once so close to. Know that this is not really true and we are very much able to connect with them while they are in spirit. I know it isn’t the same, but the connection is never lost. And it’s only time that you will reunite again when you are in spirit as well. That may feel like a long time to come but in the larger sense of your eternal soul, this is a drop in the bucket of time.

    Prince is very aware of how you feel. He was aware of your feelings while he was alive in body, and he still is now that he is alive in spirit. Have no doubts that you gave him love and care that made his time on the earth meaningful.

    Blessings and peace to you,
    Selina

  • Lys March 11, 2015, 8:07 am

    Selina I can’t tell you how much I appreciate your reply, it made me feel so much better . That she’s safe in the light just resonates as true the way you say it. My mother saw Holly, had a visit from her the night I wrote this note. She and I both believe it’s real, just like when my father visited her the night he passed. Mom saw her scoot out from under the kitchen table and walk over to the landing to look out the window. She made a little woof noise, the same one she makes when people are walking by the window. Mom says her coat was radiant, just glowing , so beautiful. Then she faded out, she didn’t disappear, she faded from view gently. I’m going to continue to ask Holly to come visit me in my dreams but for now knowing she’s safe is a huge weight off my mind. God bless, Lys

  • Paula March 23, 2015, 4:56 am

    Our dog, Angel Boy, was put to rest on Feb. 26th, 2015. He was a rescue that save us 8 short years ago, we estimate he could have been 10+ years. My husband and I decided after an “out of character” show of aggression we would put him to sleep. I am having a really hard time dealing with the guilt of making such a decision. I want to believe that he is with me, and knows how much we loved him and how empty our lives are now. Even the cats are waiting at the door 3 weeks later for him to come home.
    Is there a way to get passed the guilt?

  • Selina March 24, 2015, 4:21 am

    Hi Paula,

    I’m so sorry to hear of Angel Boy’s passing. It is a hard decision to make to put down a pet. Pets are empathic by nature. They are able to sense your emotions. He would have known how much you loved him.

    It sounds like there was something that wasn’t right with him and on a soul level maybe you knew that his time was not long, especially at the age he was. Pets do not hold resentment or anger toward us for our decisions. They are not built the same as humans. Their souls have a special quality. It sounds like you showed him love and thought of him as one of the family.

    In spirit, Angel Boy will be around you. He hears you, sees you, and still cares about you as much as he did while alive. So there is no need to hold onto guilt.

    Ask for his spirit to come to you and give you a sign that he is okay with things. I know he is, but you may need to have a feeling, a dream, a synchronicity or something else that will help you to move on. Sometimes we block when they are around because we are so sad or feel guilty. So it may take you some time to feel his presence, but he is there with you already.

    Many blessings,
    Selina

  • Colin McGregor March 28, 2015, 6:07 pm

    I have just had the hardest thing I have ever had todo my so bueatiful white pure breed staffy doggy had breathing problems she was 15 she could not walk I loveher so much and so cry for her all the time her male partner is very quiet and sad im trying to cheer him up he loved her the night b4 I had to do this I had a dream my dogs got loose and I had to go look for them (did this mean anything) I want another staffy the same as her could you tell me will her spiret come into the new staffy as she was so loved I want her back my wife was in a dreamy state last night she rolled over and said storms name the name of my doggy she said she was dreaming storm cme into the room and wanted to play she was touching her feet I love my stormy so much as its only been 2 dayssinse it happened I haven’t heard from her so far my heart is so filled with sadness I do hope she isn’t upset I ha tolet hergo but she was suffering and I had to make a quick decistion I stayed with her when they did it she just fell asleep on my arm I took her home and laid her on her faverate cushon over and I buried her the next morning in a nice place my male staffy sat on the blanket with her while I dug her grave he made a funny noise I haven’t heard b4 he knew I talk to her grave and blow her a kiss every morning and say good morning

  • Colin McGregor March 28, 2015, 6:36 pm

    I just need to know if she will come into a new staffy if I get another one as we were so bonded together she was so humen just couldn’t bark at the end so hard

  • Selina March 31, 2015, 11:33 pm

    Hi Colin,

    I’m so sorry to hear about your dog passing. I know that she was more than just a pet to you. While it is possible for animals to incarnate again as an animal and then return to their previous people, it doesn’t always happen this way. You will be reunited in spirit when it’s your time to cross. In the meantime, she will visit you in spirit while you are here. You can always pray for her to come back to you if it’s meant to be.

    All the best,
    Selina

  • MIKE April 10, 2015, 9:02 am

    SUNDAY 1ST MARCH 2015,MY BEST FRIEND OF 17 YEARS MIDDLEC HAD TO BE PUT TO SLEEP SHE HAD SEVERE KIDNEY DISEASE ,AND SHE GOT VERY SICK ,IT BROKE MY HEART INTO A MILLION PIECES TO HAVE TO PUT HER TO SLEEP,SHE WAS MY BEST FRIEND MY ROCKAND WAS ALWAYS BY MY SIDE,WE DEVELOPED A VERY SPECIAL BOND OVER ALL THOSE YEARS,SHE WOULD SLEEP WITH ME EVERY NIGHT WITH HER BODY UNDER THE BLANKETS AND HER HEAD RESTING ON MY SHOULDER,MIDDLEC ,ALWAYS SAT ON MY LAP WHILE I WAS ON THE COMPUTOR,SHE TALKED TO ME ALL THE TIME AND AFTER 17 YEARS I KNEW WHAT SHE MENT,TO ME MIDDLEC WASNT JUST A CAT.ID GIVE ANYTHING TO BE ABLE TO SEE HER AND TO KO SHES OK,I FEEL SO BAD BECAUSE SHE TRUSTED ME TO TAKE CARE OF HER AND I COULDNT MAKE HER WELL AGAIN,SOME TIMES I SENCE SHE IS AROUND ,I TALK TO HER ALOT DURING THE DAY AS I DID WHEN SHE WAS ALIVE AND SHE KNEW WHAT I WAS SAYING, IM NOT SURE IF SHE CAN HEAR ME SINCE SHE HAS PASSED OVER,.I MISS HER SO VERY MUCH ,LIFE AINT THE SAME WITH OUT MY BEST FRIEND.I GOT SMOOCHED AND KISSES FROM HER ALL THE TIME,I WISH I KNEW IF SHE WAS OK .MIDDLEC WILL FOREVER BE LOVED AND MISSED ALWAYS.I HAD HER CREMATED AND HER ASHES ARE IN A NICE ERN NEXT TO HER 2 PHOTOS THAT I KEEP IN MY LOUNGE,YOUR SO LUCKY TO BE ABLE TO SEE YOUR PASSED OVER PET,I WISH I COULD DO THE SAME AND SEE MIDDLE C,MY BEST FRIEND.

  • Selina April 12, 2015, 9:27 pm

    Hi Mike,

    It’s always so sad when our beloved pets die. Middlec was lucky to be able to spend so many years with you. I feel she knows how you think about her and how much you love her. Her spirit is fine. In fact, I feel that she adores connecting with you in her spirit form as for her it hasn’t changed – her ability to come and snuggle with you, to pop in and see what’s going on.

    Know that she is very much alive in spirit. You are already sensing her presence so that tells me that you can communicate with her. Just send her your thoughts and images from your mind of what you want to say and then watch and listen in your mind for a response. Don’t try too hard to receive as sometimes the trying can actually block it. Just be relaxed and open.

    Please don’t feel guilty or badly about having to put her down. Her heart knows it was done from compassion and she is very much at peace.

    Many blessing,
    Selina

  • MIKE April 13, 2015, 7:35 am

    HI SELINA,I HOPE SHE IS FINE,SHE WAS A VERY BIG PART OF MY LIFE,FOR THOSE 17 YEARS,AND FROM A VERY EARLY AGE SHE WAS ALWAYS CLOSE TO ME I WATCHED HER AND HER 2 SISTERS BEING BORN IN JANUARY 1998,MIDDLE C HAD SO MUCH LOVE TO GIVE ME AND ALWAYS SHOWED ME HOW MUCH SEE LOVED ME,I DO FEEL BAD ABOUT ENDING MIDDLEC S LIFE BECAUSE OF HOW DEVOTED SHE WAS TO ME THE LOVE SHE SHOWED ME AND SHE RELIED ON ME TO LOOK AFTER HER WHEN SHE GOT SICK,HER PASSING HAS LEFT A BIG HOLE IN MY LIFE,I HOPE YOUR ARE RIGHT AND THAT SHE DOSE UNDERSTAND WHY SHE HAD TO BE PUT TO REST,SHE IS VERY MUCH ALWAYS IN MY THOUGHTS AND ON MY MIND.SHE IS VERY MUCH MISSED EVERY DAY.

    THANKS MIKE

  • MIKE June 13, 2015, 8:31 pm

    HI SELINA,RE MY EARLIER POST ABOUT MY BEST FRIEND MIDDLE C WE WERE VERY CLOSE AND DEVELOPED A VERY CLOSE BOND OVER THE 17 YEARS SHE WAS WITH ME AS I MENTIONED,WELL HERE GOES,,IM NOT SURE WHERE TO START,ITS ABOUT 3 1/2 MONTHS SINCE I HAD TO SAY GOOD BYE TO MIDDLE C ,IT STARTED ABOUT 3 WEEKS OR SO AGO ,I WOKE UP DURING THE EARLY MORNING AND WAS JUST LAYING IN BED,THE LIGHT FROM THE STREET LIGHTS BRIGHTEN THE ROOM A BIT ITS NOT COMPLETLY DARK SO I CAN SEE QUITE WELL EVEN THOUGH ITS NIGHT TIME,I NOTICED AN IMAGE OF A CAT ON THE PILLOW NEXT TO ME, THE CAT WAS CLEANING ITS SELF I COULD SEE IT WASHING IS FACE AND BEHIND ITS EARS, I JUST LAYED THERE AND WATCHED FOR A WHILE,IT WASNT MY OTHER CAT SIMBA, THE CAT WAS LOOKING AT ME,FOR A QUITE A WHILE I THOUGHT I WAS SEEING THINGS,I COULD SEE QUITE CLEARLY THE CATS BODY FORM EVEN ITS EYES,THEY WERE A BRIGHT GREEN ,THEN IT CAME TO ME THIS IS MUST BE MIDDLE C ,I DIDNT BELIEVE WHAT I WAS SEEING,I BLINKED A FEW TIMES TO ADJUST MY EYE SIGHT AND GET A CLEARER LOOK,AS I SAID THE STREET LIGHTS BRIGHTEN THE ROOM A BIT AT NIGHT .SO THE LIGHT WAS BEHIND ME .MIDDLE C HAD BRIGHT GREEN EYES,..WHEN MIDDLE C WAS ALIVE SHE QUITE OFTEN SAT ON THE HER PILLOW THATS NEXT TO MINE,ALSO SHE SLEPT WITH HER BODY UNDER THE BLANKETS WITH HER HEAD ON HER PILLOW ,THEN I WATCHED AS SHE MOVED ACROSS FROM THE PILLOW AND SAT ON MY CHEST,SHE OFTEN DID THIS BEFORE GOING TO SLEEP AT NIGHTS ,I REALLY THOUGHT THIS IS A DREAM BUT KO I WAS VERY MUCH AWAKE. MIDDLE C HAS VISITED ME SOME NIGHTS AND MOST MORNINGS SINCE THEN I SEE HER VERY OFTEN,,AS I SAID AT FIRST I THOUGHT I WAS SEEING THINGS AND IVE TOLD MY MUM IVE SEEN MIDDLE C BUT I DONT THINK SHE BELIEVES ME,IVE OFTEN SENSED MIDDLE C s PRESENCE DURING THE DAY ALSO,IVE BEEN TALKING TO HER MOST DAYS SINCE SHE HAD TO BE PUT TO SLEEP BE CAUSE OF KIDNEY FAILURE,BECAUSE IVE ALWAYS FELT SHE WAS STILL WITH ME IN SPIRIT , MY OTHER CAT SIMBA SEEMED TO BE WATCHING SOMETHING HE WOULD PUT HIS EARS FORWARD START PURING AND JUST STARE AT A PLACE IN THE KITCHEN OR LOUNGE,SOME TIMES ID WATCH HIM AND IT WAS AS IF HE WAS WATCHING SOMETHING WALKING AROUND , SO I GUESS HE MAY HAVE BEEN WATCHING MIDDLE C,THEY WERE VERY CLOSE ALSO,HE STILL DOSE IT TO THIS DAY,AND VERY OFTEN,SO FAR THIS WEEK MIDDLE C HAS VISITED ME EVERY NIGHT ,SHE STAYS FOR LONG PERIODS OF TIME ,SOMETIMES I GO BACK TO SLEEP AND WHEN I WAKE UP ,SHES STILL WITH ME ,THURSDAY MORNING THE 11TH OF JUNE I HAD WOKEN UP AND LIKE BEFORE MIDDLE C WAS SITTING ON THE BED SIDE TABLE NEXT TO THE BED WHERE SHE ALSO USED TO SIT WHILE WAITING FOR ME TO GET INTO BED AT NIGHTS,SHE WAS AGAIN CLEANING HER SELF,I SPOKE TO HER AS I ALWAYS DO WHEN I SEE HER,I THEN GOT OUT OF BED HAD A DRINK OF WATER FEED SIMBA MY OTHER CAT HIS BISCUITS AND THEN WENT BACK TO BED, BY THIS TIME MIDDLE C WAS ON HER PILLOW AGAIN NEXT TO ME ,AS I LOOKED UP I COULD SEE ANOTHER CAT ,I HAD TO BLINK A FEW TIMES TO GET MY VISION CLEAR ,AS IT WAS STILL DARK OUT SIDE,THIS CAT WAS LIGHT GREY IN COLOUR,I THOUGHT WHAT IS GOING ON ,THEN I REMEMBERED MIDDLE C Cs MOTHER LADY WAS A RUSSIAN BLUE ,LADY WAS ABOUT 3-4 YEARS OLD WHEN MIDDLE C WAS BORN,SO LADY WOULD HAVE PASSED AWAY ALSO BY NOW ,ALL I CAN PUT IT DOWN TO WAS MIDDLE C HAD FOUND HER MUM IN THE SPIRIT WORLD AND THEY BOTH VISITED ME TOGETHER,SO FAR LADY HAS ONLY VISITED THAT 1 TIME,BUT AS I SAID MIDDLE C VISITS EVERY NIGHT / MORNING,ONE MORNING MIDDLE C WAS ON HER PILLOW NEXT TO ME,I SAID TO HER DID SHE WANT TO GO UNDER THE BLANKETS AS SHE ALWAYS USED TO DO WHE SHE WAS ALIVE,SHE WOULD GO UNDR THE BLANKETS AND GO TO SLEEP ,I THEN LIFTED UP THE BLANKETS I WATCHED AS SHE WENT UNDERTHEM I COULD SEE HER BODY AND HER TAIL WHICH WAS UP IN THE AIR SHE THEN DISSAPAIRED UNDER THE BLANKETS,WHEN MIDDLE C WAS ALIVE I ALWAYS PUT THE PILLOW ON ITS EDGE AND THE BLANKETS OVER THE PILLOW IT MADE A TENT LIKE SHAPE,SOME TIMES IN THE MORNING AFTER MIDDLE C HAD HAD HER BREACKFAST ,AND A CHAT TO ME AND HELPED ME ON THE COMPUTER FOR A WHILE MIDDLEC WOULD GO BACK TO BED AND GO UNDER THE BLANKETS FOR A FEW HOURS SLEEP, SO SINCE IVE BEEN SEEING HER AROUND AGAIN IVE BEEN PUTTING THE PILOW ON ITS EDGE AGAIN AS BEFORE TO LET HER SPIRIT HAVE SOME SLEEP,I THINK THEY MUST SLEEP IN SPIRIT FORM,I DONT RELLY KNOW MUCH ABOUT THAT SIDE OF THINGS,AFTER THIS LOT I KO YOUR GOING TO THINK IM GOING NUTS AND OTHER PEOPLE WILL AS THINK THIS BUT THIS HAS BEEN A MYSTRY TO ME AND IM VERY SOUND IN THE MIND I DONT NORMALY SEE THINGS OR HEAR VOICES,IM VERY OPENED MINDED WHEN IT COMES TO THE AFTER LIFE AFTER SEEING MY DAD AFTER HE HAD PASSED AWAY ,AND YOU DO HEAR SOME AMAZING THINGS THAT PEOPLE HAVE SEEN INCLUDING THERE PASSED OVER PETS AND FAMILY MEMBERS ETC,SO MAYBE YOU CAN TELL ME WHAT HAS BEEN HAPPENING AND WHY IM SEEING MIDDLE C AGAIN .

  • Selina Khan June 15, 2015, 3:39 pm

    Hi Mike,

    Wow that is beautiful! You are so lucky that you have been able to perceive such a strong visitation from Middle C. And not just once! I don’t think you are crazy. I have heard of other people also having very strong visitations from their pets who have crossed. I think it’s interesting that Middle C brought her mom with her to visit. That happened once to me when my Miso crossed and my husband’s cat who is also in spirit came through with her to let me know he was showing her the ropes so to speak of the spirit world.

    I think Middle C was letting you know that she is still very much alive and with others in spirit, like her mom, and also that she is remembering and loving you as you remember her.

    You ask why you are seeing her? You have a very strong bond and I think if I remember your other posts, that you wished you could connect with her again, didn’t you? Seems that she knew and was waiting for you to be at a point where you could perceive her the way you did.

    Many blessings to you for sharing such a wonderful connection with us!

    Take care,
    Selina

  • MIKE June 15, 2015, 9:50 pm

    HI SELINA,THANKS ,IM SURE YOU MUST KO HOW I FEEL AS THIS HAS HAPPENED TO YOU ALSO,IVE BEEN TOLD IM 1 OF A FEW THIS HAPPENS TO ,MIDDLE C AND I WERE SO VERY CLOSE FOR OVER 17 YEARS AND AS YOU HAVE SAID BECAUSE OF THAT THIS IS HAPPENING TO ME, MIDDLE C HAS BEEN VISITING AGAIN ,EVERY DAY THIS MONTH SO FAR,ITS ALWAYS WONDER FULL TO SEE MIDDLE C ,I MISS HER SO SO VERY MUCH BUT SEEING HER AS I HAVE BEEN DOING MAKES ME REALISE SHE IS OK AND SHE KNOWS I WILL ALWAYS LOVE HER AND BE HERE FOR HER,I THINK SHE KNOWS THAT AND THATS WHY SHE IS WITH ME NOW,AS I SAID I TALK TO HER ALL THE TIME,MIDDLE C IS MY BEST FRIEND AND ALWAYS WILL BE ,I KNOW ILL BE WITH HER AGAIN……
    THERE IS MORE TO LIFE THAN WHAT WE SEE …

  • Selina Khan June 24, 2015, 3:36 pm

    Yes Mike! So true! There is more to life than what we see. All the best and many blessings to you. Selina

  • James July 13, 2015, 6:43 am

    I lost my cat tigger who i treated like my son he was my family and he was only 5 and he got hit by a car he was a wild cat massive and it would have been unfair to keep him indoors even though he may still be alive he loved going outside all night and would bring things he caught home on a regular basis but he was also so cuddly and was so affectionate when he was inside aswell ..it has left me so heartbroken and ive ended up smoking again i quit before for years ive also been doctors because ive took so bad ….i dont really believe in the afterlife but my girlfriend does who i live with ..it was her cat aswell …i decided to get him cremated the day after he died because i want him buried with me when i die but i heard bad storys about the vets putting all the animals in together so i went to a place where you can pay to see him again say goodbye and take him to the cremation bit myself ..it was lovely and i felt like i really got to send him off the way he derserved i got a nice engraved box with his ashes in ..since then i feel like we have had many signs starting after the creamation . The first thing that happened was that as the cremation finished to the minute almost i got a text message telling me i had been accepted for a job i applied for ( ive been without work for 2 years) and i had to admit it felt like he was doing me one last favour but was more of a nice thought than me actually believing it..that night we brought his ashes home and i made a nice shrine to him on his bed with his ashes and blanklet and i was truly heartbroken but at least he was with us …the house was so cold for no reason both me and my gf were shivering despite us asking friends if they were cold and they could hardly sleep it was so humid …its the middle of summer ..we got in to bed and i suddenly felt like i could sleep because i was so emtionally drained ..my gf says she felt him come on to the bed and felt his paws on here hard like he used to exactly the same coming on to our bed …she was so scared and i asked if she was saying it to try make me feel better but i she promised me on certain peoples lives she was telling the truth so she was 100% telling the truth .the next day a robin flew over us 3 times during the course of the day and sat next my gf on wall …she has always said she believe robins are way of them saying there okay…still i wasnt convinced then when we got in saw a small white feather inside our keys …something i wouldnt have thought anything off …my gf looked up ‘found white feather ‘ and there was all pages about how it means that someone who has died is looking out for you as a ‘angel ‘ like and to tell you there okay …i then went to smoke outside and when i was done i looked at my feet and there was a white feather i checked straight away it was a different feather but exactly the same…. i found more after of that maybe 10 and they was not there before…..i almost felt like i could feel him with me.. ive told him in my head and out aloud that if he is here stay aslong as you want or can …im worried about moving house as this was his house and if he here i dont want to leave but we need to really? Also my gf is scared about it and im worried if his sprit is here she will scare him off but shes trying her best because she loved him as family aswell she is convinced he is with us …she has had grandperants and other dogs die but she never felt anything and she swears on anything he climed on her the night we brought his ashes back ..i feel like she is being sent signs to her so she can tell me because i wouldnt see the signs and dont really believe (or i didnt not sure now lol) like
    The feather meant nothing to me but it did to her and 15 min later i see a different feather but the exact same at my feet with no idea how one got in the house and then one in the garden its hard to explain with the logistics of my house but it had no right to be there..she feels like she can feel him with us and sometimes i do to and i pray we are reunited one day he was my best friend its almost turning me religous lol ..sorry its long this message but its helped me to say it

  • Selina Khan July 13, 2015, 2:57 pm

    Hi James,

    I am so sorry to hear of Tigger’s passing. It is always so hard for the mind to accept all the ways that spirit tried to give us signs. Sometimes spirit hits us over the head with the signs and we still need more to believe. That’s okay. In your heart, you have already connected to his spirit whether your mind wants to believe or not.

    I have lost many cats, but the last two were very special to me as they were with me for a very long time. I have moved and they visit me in the new place. It’s not the place that they connect with, but the people. Please don’t worry that you will ever lose your connection with Tigger. Neither will your girlfriend’s reaction of being scared do anything bad. She’s just not used to it yet.

    You have already reunited with him but it is when he is in spirit and you still incarnated. I do believe that our beloved animal family welcomes us to the other side when it’s our time to arrive. In the meantime, they continue to visit us and we can connect with them while we are still here.

    Thank you for sharing your experiences with us.

    Many blessings,
    Selina

  • MIKE August 2, 2015, 10:24 pm

    HI SELINA,YOU MAY REMEMBER TELLING YOU ABOUT MY BEST FRIEND MIDDLE C VISITING ME AFTER SHE PASSED OVER 1ST MARCH 2015 ,SHE IS STILL COMING TO SEE ME ,HER BEST FRIEND SIMBA AND MY LITTLE MAN WAS MISSING HER SO VERY MUCH AFTER SHE PASSED OVER,,HE WAS SUCH GREAT COMPANY SINCE HER PASSING ,HE WAS ALWAYS BY MY SIDE AFTER THAT, THEN ON THE 22ND OF JUNE 2015,I LOST MY MUM SUDDENLY SHE PASSED AWAY IN HOSPITAL..,IT WAS SUCH A GREAT BIG LOSS FOR ME TO LOSE 2 FAMILY THAT I LOVED SO VERY MUCH,AND TO LOSE 2 FAMILY MEMBERS IN 4 MONTHS WAS SO HARD TO TRY TO DEAL WITH ,THEN ON THE 22ND OF JULY I TOOK MY LITTLE MAN SIMBA TO THE VET AS HE WAS A BIT UNWELL AND HADNT EATEN MUCH IN THE LAST FEW DAYS LEADING UP TO THE 22ND JULY,THE VET SAID WE WILL DO SOME BLOODS AND SCANS TO SEE WHAT IS GOING ON BUT THERE ARE SOME LUMPS ON HIS KIDNEYS ETC, HE SAID IT COULD BE CANCER,,..THAT WAS ALL I NEEDED TO HEAR,,HE RANG ME BACK AT 2.45 THAT DAY AND SAID IM SO VERY SORRY I KNOW HOW MUCH SIMBA MEANS TO YOU ,BUT HE HAS CANCER VERY VERY BAD,ITS NOT GOOD THERE IS NOTHING I CAN DO FOR SIMBA IM VERY SORRY ABOUT THE NEWS,,MY LITTLE MAN MUST HAVE BEEN IN ALOT OF PAIN HE WAS STILL PURRING AS HE ALWAYS DID EVEN EATING HIS FAVORITE BISCATS , I WENT DOWN TO THE VETS TO BE WITH MY LITTLE MAN AND I SAT WITH HIM ON MY LAP FOR WELL OVER A HOUR OR SO ,,I WAS TALKING TO HIM I GAVE HIM A FEW BISCUITS AND TOLD HIM I LOVED HIM VERY MUCH,,HE UNDER STOOD ME AFTER 13 YEARS OF BEING MY LITTLE FRIEND,,IT WAS SO SO HARD TO HAVE TO GO THROUGH THIS ONE MORE TIME ,I HAD TO SAY GOOD BY TO SIMBA AS THE VET SAID HE WOULDNT HAVE TO MANY DAYS YO LIVE ,ANOTHER LOSS ,I HELD MY LITTLE MAN IN MY ARMS AS HE WAS PUT TO REST AND TOLD HIM I LOVED HIM VERY VERY MUCH HE WOULD HAVE UNDERSTOOD ME AS I TOLD HIM VERY OFTEN WHEN I GAVE HIM A CUDDLE ..HE WAS ALWAYS TALKING TO ME ALSO ..,,SIMBA PASSED OVER PEACEFULLY ,,SIMBA WAS NOW GOING TO BE WITH MIDDLE C AGAIN..I THOUGHT TO MY SELF WHAT DID I DO SO WRONG TO HAVE THIS HAPPEN AGAIN..,,SO WITH 3 LOSES IN JUST OVER 4 MONTHS ITS BEEN VERY HARD FOR ME ,IVE ASKED MIDDLE C TO FIND SIMBA AND BRING HIM HOME …I HOPE SHE CAN DO THIS FOR ME,,BOTH MIDDLE C AND SIMBA HAVE BEE CREMATED AND I HAVE THEIR ASHES IN A REMU BOX NEXT TO THERE PHOTOS,,I MISS THEM BOTH AND MY MUM SO SO VERY MUCH..AS SIMBA WASNT NEAR HOME WHEN HE PASSED OVER AT THE VET CLINIC .. COULD HE FIND HIS WAY HOME TO ME ???

  • Selina Khan August 8, 2015, 1:18 pm

    Hi Mike,

    I’m so sorry you’ve experienced so much loss recently. It’s very difficult when one of our family crosses, but even more so when it’s all coming at once as it has for you. My heart goes out to you at this time.

    You did nothing wrong. This isn’t your fault. There is a time for everyone and truly only God knows that. All your family (furry and human) are blessed to have a loving soul such as you to connect with them before their time of crossing, and then again when they come to visit you.

    Where someone crosses has no bearing to them finding their way to people. It doesn’t matter if you move, if someone dies far away, if you weren’t there when they passed – their spirits all know their way home and to the people they love.

    Blessings to Middle C, Simba and your Mom. And Blessings to you for having an open heart to spirit in such a difficult time. It will help you to receive the love they send you from the other side and to perceive them that much more when they visit you in spirit.

    Take care,
    Selina

  • JL Gabriel August 13, 2015, 6:47 pm

    I had been having audio and visual premonitions of my kitty’s death. Strangers stopped on the road to warn me that she wasn’t safe out, and I thought they meant someone could steal her. I knew cats get hurt outdoors, and I could have stopped it, but I didn’t. And in my case, I was even shown her death in advance… but I didn’t connect the dots. I loved her so much, and I let her die.

  • Selina Khan August 16, 2015, 3:08 pm

    Hi JL,

    Had you understood, I’m sure you would have done things differently. There are times we are shown things in advance and even then, we are not able to change it. As you really don’t know if this was something that you could have prevented or not, it may be best for you to accept it and focus on the relationship that you did have while she was alive.

    Let me say this a different way. I believe that when it’s someone’s time to die, their spirit along with the Intelligent Force of the Universe (God, Creator, Higher Source, etc) make that happen no matter what else someone tries to do. Perhaps you were given these messages so that you could have a chance to change your actions but it may not have made a difference to her spirit choosing to cross when she did. You may have kept her inside but then something else may have happened. You may have changed your actions and she may have lived for longer, but if she was meant to live longer, it was her spirit and God that would decide that.

    The best thing to do is to forgive yourself, send love to her and focus on the times that you had in the past that were good. You can also open up to connect with her when her spirit comes to visit so you can continue your relationship with her in a different way.

    Many blessings,
    Selina

  • chia August 23, 2015, 8:20 pm

    Selina,

    I had to euthanize my amazing, almost 14 year old Border Collie on July 14th.

    We were a team, just him and I…and I suppose I should feel grateful that he lived, almost to the end, in wonderful health overall except the arthritis sort of thing in hips.

    I know guilt is irrational…but if I had known, that the last night together WAS the last night, I never would have stopped holding and caressing him….I didn’t realize he was hemorrhaging..since it started out as diarrhea after three days of not eating from vestibular syndrome. I don’t know exactly what was happening at the end medically but the vet looked at me and said this was very bad, and she could do test etc….but I shook my head no..not at his age…
    But, the guilt…was I doing this to save my heart the pain of watching him get older and ill?.. Should I have tried?..although the vet said his quality of life would be poor…still, I feel selfish sort of too…I loved him more than myself..

    Ricco WAS my life…I thought he would live until 16 or 17 so this was a shock….it has been nearly 6 weeks, the incessant crying has Dissipated and I am calmer, but my heart breaks from emptiness. Tending to his every need for 14 years then nothing.

    I talk and chat to him frequently…I sing the little songs I used to sing to him…I light the candles every night by his pictures..his favourite toy and collar tucked between…I ask him for a sign….I pray at night and Ask him for dream visits. And when I awake, I think I feel the dream was of him but I know visitations are usually clear and unforgettable and I have yet to have one of those and I so, so want a sign.

    He was my entire life..and although that might not be the norm, it was my life and I would NOT have changed a thing.

    Is there anything more. I can do to encourage a visit or some sort of sign instead of an ambiguous bird or butterfly?..I want something cogent and clear…I am surprised there hasn’t been something like that yet since we were essentially one being..we were all each other had.
    Maybe now that I am reaching a state of more peace I might but I am being ridiculously impatient. I know his spirit lives on….but I so need to know how my beautiful boy is.
    Thankyou for allowing me to type this to you..I will be get through this loss but never over it…my life was transformed by being allowed and was privileged-to care for this exquisite creature
    May God bless you
    Chia

  • Selina Khan August 27, 2015, 12:02 pm

    Hi Chia,

    I am so sorry to that you had to put Ricco down. Choosing to let go of a loved one rather than extend their life in pain is a really hard choice.

    Never in all of my experiences in connecting with my own four legged ones in Spirit or for any of my client’s pets has one of them come through saying that they didn’t want to die just then. It’s like they just see it as what happened and part of the cycle of life and death. Every single one of them goes to the light.

    But as I know you will still wonder, Ricco is fine. I feel he has come by so often already for you but that you haven’t always perceived it. The signs of the butterfly and bird are easier for you to notice right now. Give it some time.

    Sure there are things you can do to encourage visits and signs. Ask for something bigger and then be patient. Speak through your heart to him right before you fall asleep and invite him into your dreams. Ask him to come around you and touch you somehow – then be still and calm and very aware of all of the slight changes you feel, images that pop into your mind’s eye, words that come into your mind. Don’t doubt. Be appreciative of the signs you already have and just know your connection is just as strong.

    Thank you so much for sharing your love of Ricco with us.

    I wish you all the best.
    Selina

  • DEBBIE November 9, 2015, 6:31 pm

    I have always had a connection seeing people and strange things happening when people close to me die! But in the last 2 years I have had very clear connections with pets that I have been close to! My little dog passed away almost 2 years ago and I was laying on the sofa cuddling him knowing he was going to pass at any moment , His heart stopped and he was my arms and clear as day his spirit was running around in front of me back and forth! It was like him showing me he was all healthy and happy! Then it got really wierd with my daughters cat we had her 15 years she was the former mentioned dogs best friend, I called my daughter to come home as I could feel it was time, she layed on the sofa with my daughter and at 518 AM I was sitting in the floor and all of a sudden on the other side of the coffee table a child about 4 or 5 appeared she was so beautiful all she said to me was ” Iam so sad Iam not going to be here anymore! And I put my arms out to hug her and then my daughter started yelling at me that Princess had taken her last breath she was gone and so was the little girl it was 531! I know this little girl was Princess and I do believe she had lived formerly as a child that died young we got Princess as a 5 week old kitten she never ever had interest in having kittens with our male cat and he never attempted to try with her neither were fixed! She preferred the company of my daughter and not adults and the weirdest part was she was a pure white long haired but her skinunder her fur was black. The child that came to me was a light skinned black girl with long flowing beautiful hair I had never seen this child in my life she was angelic! I have researched this and It is more than possible that a spirit does jump from human to animal form!!!

  • Selina Khan November 11, 2015, 3:43 pm

    Hi Debbie,

    Yes it is possible for an animal to have both animal and human form. I have experienced this myself and it is too moving for me to write about at this time. Perhaps one day I’ll share that in a blog. Thank you for sharing your experiences.

    Blessings,
    Selina

  • Lauren November 14, 2015, 4:36 pm

    My kitty Malcolm got hit by a car last friday (11/6/15) and I had trouble burying him. He was my baby. Last night I visited his bed (i hate saying the g word) and I lit a white candle because I wanted to tell him that I love him. I don’t know if this is crazy but I think I felt him rub on my face. After that I got really scared and paranoid that something dark was going to touch me instead of my malcolm so I abruptly blew out the candle and ran home. It was pitch black outside and I couldnt see a foot in front of my face besides the light of the candle and I was really spooked. Since that happened I’ve felt very uneasy and like something is always watching me, but it doesnt feel like a nice presence. What have I done? Did I just invite something evil into my life, or am I being paranoid? Is it my malcolm? Am I just misreading his ques? Help me, I’m scared.

  • Selina Khan November 18, 2015, 4:24 pm

    Hi Lauren,

    I am so sorry to hear about Malcolm. Our family cat also was hit by a car and although I wasn’t there to bury her, I saw the impact of it on the rest of my family. My heart goes out to you.

    I’ve had many cats in my life that are now on the other side. I’ve seen their spirits, had the feeling of paws walking on me in bed, and recently one of them came and licked my forehead. All of this from their spirit forms. They absolutely can and do visit you.

    I feel that it really was Malcolm. The rest of it doesn’t seem to be spirit but rather something that your mind is making up. It’s really easy to spook ourselves if we aren’t use to spirit contact. You didn’t invite something evil into your life. Stop feeding the thought. Instead connect with all that gives you joy – Angels, God, Mother Earth, and Malcolm.

    Blessings,
    Selina

  • Jeanne L December 6, 2015, 9:42 pm

    Good Evening, Selina:
    I recently lost Blu and have been trying to get through my days without him. He was in distress and I accepted the Vet’s word that he was suffering. I am torn apart wondering if I made the right decision putting Blu to sleep? I could not stop crying and think I must have made his last moments even more traumatic for him. Can you please tell me if he is at peace now?
    Thank you so very much for taking the time to read my request,
    Jeanne L

  • Selina Khan December 7, 2015, 2:01 pm

    Hi Jeanne,

    I’m so sorry to hear about Blue. When I ask about Blu for you I feel a sense of peace and satisfaction. Also a real centeredness from Blu, like a solidness. Yes Blu is at peace.

    I’m sure your crying at the end did not make it harder for him to cross, but that he saw it as a sign of how deep your connection is with him. They love us so much. Don’t worry about this. It’s a hard decision to make. You were there for him to help him cross and to let him know how much you love him. Your presence would have brought him peace.

    Many blessings,
    Selina

  • Michael December 8, 2015, 11:14 am

    Selina,

    Last Friday I had to make the very difficult decision to put my best friend of 21 years down. Gunner was there for me for everything in my life, through my dads passing and all other sad times. He was the best gift I’ve ever had and I will miss him more than I can describe. My dad and him had a very strong connection as well, and it would provide great comfort to me knowing my dad was there to help him pass over.

  • Michael December 8, 2015, 12:10 pm

    Selina-
    I held Gunner in his final moments and want to make sure he is at peace and no longer in pain. Also, do you believe our pets wait for us when we pass over? I couldn’t think of a better greeting to the other side than that. Thanks for taking the time to read my comments and for making this blog, it’s of great help during tough times.

  • vilune December 13, 2015, 5:31 am

    Dear Selina, I am from Lithuania (one of the Baltic States in Europe). I’m desperate. My Molly transitioned 6 months ago and I am still desperate. The pain is growing with every day and I don’t know what to do. In September I spent 2 weeks in the Crisis Intervention Centre, I am still in contact with my psychologist and psychiatrist, but nothing has changed. I am thinking about a new dog but the thought that she will die one day stops me from doing that. I love my Molly so much and cannot forget her. She visited me twice in my dreams, but I am looking forward to more signs from her…Every morning, every single day is horrible without her. Please, help me cope with this enourmous pain… Thank in advance. Vilune

  • Selina Khan December 14, 2015, 11:54 am

    Hello Michael,

    I’m sorry to hear about Gunner. Sounds like you two really are amazing best friends and his presence was of huge support and comfort to you while he was in his body. Now he will be connecting to you without his physical body. The relationship does not end because we transition out of the body.

    As for your question, I feel that your father was present at Gunner’s crossing but he was not the only one that assisted his crossing. I see a very bright being that was the main assist for him. Your father was present and his energy helped in creating the love that welcomed Gunner Home. So your dad was part of the team.

    Many blessings to you,

    Selina

  • Selina Khan December 14, 2015, 11:56 am

    Hi Again Michael,

    Yes he is at peace, no question about that. No pain on the other side. And no pain once out of the body. I believe that our pets greet us when we cross but you don’t have to wait until then to connect with them. In fact, Gunner will visit you many, many times before it’s your time to cross over.

    Take care,
    Selina

  • Selina Khan December 14, 2015, 12:56 pm

    Hi Vilune,

    I’m so sorry you are having such a tough time moving on. You are doing the right things in seeking counselling and it would be good to stick with that to give you support. There isn’t much I can do to help as you will be ready to move forward when you are ready to move forward. Grief is like that. It’s a process. I can tell you that Molly is giving you signs that she is okay so that you can rest easy and focus on your healing.

    All the best,
    Selina

  • Jeanne L December 15, 2015, 9:58 pm

    Dear Salina:
    I am so grateful for your reply about Blu. He was a part of my life for 17 years; since he was a 5 wk old kitten. We had a pretty good life together and I really miss the little guy. I keep reminding myself that he’s no longer struggling for every breathe and that he’s free of a broken body that doesn’t want to work any more. I lost his mother many years ago & hope they’re making up for lost time! Your kind words have helped to ease my heartache and I thank you.
    Blessings to you,
    Jeanne

  • Samantha December 16, 2015, 10:48 am

    We lost our beloved precious girl on November 30th without warning. We were and still are broken. She was our family and our first baby…. She was an amazing sister to our daughter. She was perfect…. Then we woke up that morning and she was laying on the floor in the bathroom, she wouldn’t get up, her heart was beating really fast and she was breathing very heavy… we had to carry her down on the bathmat and rushed her to the vet. They did X-rays and blood work but didn’t find anything… We were getting ready to take her to the emergency vet clinic in Guelph for ultrasound and told she would have to be put in icu. When they were bringing her back to us at the vet she went into cardiac arrest and we laid there with her hugging, petting kissing & hugging her and telling her how much we loved her and she left us. Now I have so much grief and sadness we could never have prepared ourselves for that morning… She was only 7.5 years old and she was taken way too soon with out any explanation of what happened. I think that she took the choice from us as she knows we would have spent all the money in the world to save her. I have been hoping that she would come to visit me in a dream to tell me that she is ok and tell me that she knows exactly how much we loved her…. She was our world and she really did make this world a better place while she was here. If love could have saved her she would have lived forever.

  • Selina Khan December 16, 2015, 1:58 pm

    Hi Samantha,

    I’m so sorry that you experienced such a sudden loss. You were there to make her last moments before crossing filled with so much love. Yes, she was young, but we all have our times to go. I’m sure she will make her presence known to you. Sometimes our grief makes it hard to connect, but for other people it doesn’t interfere. Be patient, keep your heart open. Don’t assume she hasn’t come around just because you haven’t perceived her yet.

    All the best,
    Selina

  • Michael December 17, 2015, 1:06 am

    Selina,

    Thank you for taking the time to read my post, it is much appreciated. Your response helped me during this difficult time. You stated there was a bigger energy that helped him pass, I’d be curious as to who that was with my dad. Gunner did have a son that died of cancer 6 years ago, so I was curious to see if you he was present as well. Gunner has already visited in my dreams, which is comforting. Thanks again for your response, have a nice holiday.

  • Selina Khan December 18, 2015, 2:40 pm

    Hi Michael,

    The energy felt like a higher being of some kind. All I saw was a very bright form. Very loving and happy to greet Gunner. There are many different types of beings in the universe, just as there are many species living on earth. We tend to paint all loving and high level beings that have that kind of light as Angels. I believe that would be like calling all life forms in the oceans fish. I notice that some of these higher level beings appear slightly differently, have different vibrations. So I’m a little hesitant to say that the bright form was an Angel. I do know that this being was filled with a lightness, love and happiness that just radiated out to Gunner.

    As for Gunner’s son, I didn’t see him present in the crossing, however, that doesn’t mean that he wasn’t there or waiting at the other end of the portal to the other side to greet him.

    Happy and joy filled holidays to you and your family.

    Selina

  • Linda December 18, 2015, 5:34 pm

    Please I need to have my Milo a Chihuahua come down in spirit. I have tried to ask of him to get the strength to give me a sign and nothing yet. The day he died and his ashes were brought to me by a repitable person I put him on the mantel and all of a sudden this round ring came down from the shelf with a lighter ring around it and it went up and down on the wall took off my glasses to see if I was just seeing wrong but no it was their. I am not sure if this was a spirit or not but its been a year and I can not get anything. Please I need this its been 1 year and I can not get over him passing. I have a whole in my heart that will not close I loved him so much he was my friend and my comfort through the tough times. Please tell me what I can do. Thank you

  • Angela Peniuk December 26, 2015, 3:16 am

    On Dec. 14/2015, I put my cat to sleep, he had a few health issues, thyroid, kidneys, he wasn’t the same anymore, he didn’t want all the pills, food, just laid around depressed so I gave him peace and freedom from it all. it broke me. I had him cremated and have him in an urn at home. I have also 2 8×10 photos I stare at a few times a day and try to reach out to him(Thailee) a siamese mix male cat. I walk to his urn and talk to him, hoping he understands what I did for him. He sat with me on the sofa and sometimes I pat the sofa saying” come on baby, sit with mama” and I can almost visualize him doing so. I miss him more than any human I have ever lost. I feel a bit guilty for that, but it is true. I want to be scattered at my time of death with him. How can I connect with his spirit while I am alive and deepen that connection till i die. I need my baby in my life, my beautiful cat Thailee.

  • Stephanie December 26, 2015, 10:55 pm

    Hi Selina,

    I just had to put my sweet baby girl Misty (dog) down last week. It was the hardest thing I ever had to do it feels like a piece of my soul is missing. It was very sudden she was fine a few days prior then one night she ate her food as usual and just threw it up and the next day wouldn’t stop throwing up and she wouldn’t eat her food or drink water. I feel great grief and guilt for making the decision to say goodbye and thought if i gave her a few more days maybe she would of recovered. She had kidney and liver disease but maybe she with some medicine she would get better. Every now and then when I think about her or feel down I feel this cool air around me and I think its her spirit do you think it can be her?

    Thanks,
    Stephanie

  • Louise December 27, 2015, 10:21 pm

    At the age of 8 my cat disapeared,I knew he was dead as felt him ob mt bed! And can hear him purr! 20yrs later and a move over 300miles He still comes to visit! Its amazing

  • Selina Khan December 30, 2015, 10:49 am

    Hi Linda,

    I’m am so sorry to hear about Milo. It can be very devastating to lose someone so close to us. The light rings were from him – both a hello and to let you know he is okay.

    Sometimes grief and our sadness can block our perception of spirit. This happens in two ways. One is that because we are so deep in grief, we may miss the subtle signs and visits when spirit does come. Another way is that spirit knows how hard it is for us in our emotions when they do come and they may wait until we are a little better so we aren’t so overwhelmed by their visits.

    Please note that just because you haven’t perceived Milo, it doesn’t mean that he isn’t around or seeing what you are up to. I know you are having a hard time getting over this. I suggest you think about speaking to a grief counsellor. Not because your feelings are abnormal, but sometimes it helps just to have someone to speak with.

    The process of grieving takes time. Please be patient and do get some support. In terms of connecting with Milo, here are a couple things to try:

    1. Ask for Milo to come through in your dream state.
    2. Sit in meditation and ask for his spirit to come very close to you and to make his presence big. Even if you can’t feel him, speak to his spirit and establish a new relationship with him now that he has transitioned. Milo is not gone. He is just in another form. You may not be able to perceive him right away, but with practice, you should be able to.

    You’ll still miss him, but perhaps being able to connect with him now and again will give you the comfort you need to heal.

    All the best and many blessings,
    Selina

  • Selina Khan December 30, 2015, 11:23 am

    Hi Angela,

    I’m so sorry about Thailee. I do understand about feeling closer to him than a human. No need to feel guilty about that. Our animal companions have so much unconditional love for us. As humans we are still working on that one! So often we bond closer to our pets as we know we can fully open our hearts to them without getting hurt.

    You are on the right track with your actions. Perhaps I can make some simple suggestions? Although it is a connection point for you right now, you needn’t always go to the urn to speak to him. He is in spirit and can go anywhere, anytime, and in fact, many places at many times as there is no space or time as we experience it where he now resides.

    That means that you can speak to him whenever you like – outside, inside, out loud, in your thoughts.

    As for wanting him to touch you or sit on your sofa with you, try feeling and open your mind to see without forcing a visualization. When I work with my students to open and hone their clairsentience (psychic feeling), I ask them to first pay attention to how the space feels around them, and then to invite the spirit in to their auric field. Ask them to come and make their energy strong. Ask them to come very close to you.

    Their energy is often subtle so you need to pay attention to any small changes you feel around you. At the same time, you may get an image in your head. You can see without feeling and vice versa. Sometimes you’ll think you are making it up. That’s normal when you first start to work with your abilities. Go with what you see. Don’t doubt.

    My little cat Miso used to come in funny costumes when she first crossed over. It was to both lighten me up and to show me that she had a sense of humour.

    Many blessings,
    Selina

  • Selina Khan December 30, 2015, 11:28 am

    Hi Stephanie,

    I’m so sorry to hear about Misty taking a turn for the worst. It’s a hard decision to make, and often it’s a kind one as there is not always a lot we can do to make our pets more comfortable when they are so sick. It’s such a personal decision and there is no best time to do it, just the right time for both of you.

    Lovely! The cool air is her way of letting you know of her presence. Sometimes spirit feels cool, other times warm. Our thoughts are heard as clearly as if we speak out loud. When you think of her, she knows and she comes, especially at this time as she sees how much you miss her as her crossing has been so recent.

    Take care,
    Selina

  • Angela Peniuk January 3, 2016, 9:57 pm

    Dear Selina,

    Thank you very much for your reply back regarding Thailee. I will work on your suggestions, though sometimes I have to knock out my scattered thoughts running around in my mind. Sometimes my mind is clear enough to feel or see him, other times my mind is to cluttered. Again, thank you. Happy New Year, hoping that 2016 brings you much pleasure and joy.

    Angela Peniuk

  • Jessie January 8, 2016, 11:23 pm

    Dear Selina,

    I’m so heartbroken. On January 6th, I had to put my sweet baby Niko Kai of 13 years down. I have never felt so sad and empty, in all my life. I wasn’t able to be with him as he went, due to the policy of where everything happened. I just want to know if he made it to the other side okay and that he understands why it happened. Does he know I did it out of love and that I thought it was the best thing for him? Did anyone help him to the other side or greet him? I just want to know he’s okay and that I love him. Thank you, in advance.

  • Selina Khan January 11, 2016, 1:55 pm

    Hi Jessie,

    I’m so sorry you weren’t able to be there with Niko Kai when he crossed. I feel he has gained a greater understanding of everything since his transition from his physical body into spirit. Life with you was very important and meaningful to him. Don’t underestimate how much love was felt by him to you during his earth years and how aware he is of your love. There are always spirits and people who greet our pets when they cross. He’s doing just fine.

    Many blessings,
    Selina

  • Jessie January 11, 2016, 7:29 pm

    HI Selina,

    Thank you so much for answering. You have very much reassured me. I have one more question..does he visit me? I had a dream he jumped on my bed and last night, I swear I felt the bed sink down where he would lay sometimes. I apologize for bombarding you with questions..I’m just missing him so badly.

    Thanks so much.

  • Elizabeth January 13, 2016, 10:10 am

    Dear Selina, my dog dissapeared and was found by my neighbour 4 days later….Snakebite. Before I could fetch her and give her a proper burial, scavengers took her away. How do I find closure?

  • Jack January 13, 2016, 8:59 pm

    Dear Selina,

    after reading your article and all of the above posts, I wanted to share my painful experience and perhaps ask a few questions .

    I had to put my beloved 18 year old cat Tigresse to sleep on Christmas day.

    She had renal failure and hyperthyroidism for the last 3 years. Her kidney function was regulated by a herbal product since end of 2012. I however failed to address her hyperthyroid condition which was minor at the beginning and she seems to be feeling good. In her last few weeks, she was loosing a lot of weight again, and tried all sorts of foods, without too much success. The last week she did not eat at all for one day, so I called my vet, to get her cheched and were all booked, being Dec 23rd. So I took her to the vet hospital where her body temp had fallen to 36 degrees was dehydrated and had extreme renal failure. Although, the vet recommended euthanasia, I asked for hospitalization. She was put on IV fluids and a heating blanket to bring her temp back up. That was 11h00am Dec 23rd. I called the hospital twice that night for news and at 11h30pm, the technician told me her temp was up to 37 degrees and she started eating again. The next morning I received a call from the vet telling me her temp was dropping again, and she did not eat in the night and was shutting down. When I got there, they had SHAVED her fur, because of some mats !! That cat was never shaved in 18 years. I was so in shock ! A shaved animal can die of hypothermia, and my cat was already HYPOTHERMIC !Again they recommended euthanasia. I sais no and took her home. I tried warming her up, get her to eat, but she didn’t and was just wasting away, so 24 hours later I made the painful decision to put her to sleep.

    I was so mad at the hospital for helping her die instead of getting better.

    I have read a lot about animal communications etc. and wanted to know if she would have pulled through had she not been shaved ? Or was it her time and could not have saved her ?

    Do you know if she, and all other sick pets suffer during illness ?

    Since then, as all of you guys, I talk to her Spirit, ask for signs, etc.

    I sometimes feel her presence a bit and have felt her at my feet in my bed as she used to cuddle, once about 4 days ago.

    Can you tell me if Tigresse can be a Spiritual Guide for me ? I endeavor to learn how to communicate with her Spirit, get answers back and perhaps evolve my relationship with her.

    I miss her so much after 18 years and 2 months together, she was my best friend and love her so much !!

    Thank you so much Selina for sharing your gift, your abilities with us ! It feels good to know we can have contact with our beloved pets Souls !!

    Jack

  • MIKE January 14, 2016, 6:48 pm

    hi Selina,happy new year to you .you may remember me telling you about loosing my 2 best friends Middle c and Simba, also my Mum,last year.all of them in 4 months .2015
    Middle c has been gone now almost 12 months ,it will be a year on the first of march,this year,she still visits me every day ,ive also seen simba a few times but not as often ,Hes been gone 6 months 22 jan and my Mum 7 months 22 jan .
    Middle C still sits on the head board etc and cleans her self ,seen her moving around the room etc ,mainly late evening early morning before it gets light .whats the best way to communicate with her and simba ,im not sure if they can hear me or not.i sometimes put my hand out and i feel a kind of static feeling in my fingers and at times it feels like somthing is touching my fingers ,would that be Middle c and Simba .,and ive also seen the bed cover moving ,and as i talk it moves more often,i used to put the pillow on its edge so she could go under the blankets to have a sleep during the day ,,i still do this every morning after i get up ,11 months now ive been doing this for her ,ive keept Simbas bed in the computer as it was for him i also can feel somthing when i move my hand over the area ,i guess its him ?.just though id let you know whats been happening all these months ..as yet ive not seen my Mum..that i wish i could do .

    thanks Mike .

  • Selina Khan January 15, 2016, 9:05 pm

    Hi Jessie,

    You are welcome. Yes he does visit you. That wasn’t a dream. And yes it is possible to feel the bed sink as their spirit manifests in a more tangible was for you to feel. That is done on purpose for you. I too have felt my dear cat’s spirit paws walking on the bed and right over me. It was tangible and not just energy.

    Peace and blessings to you,
    Selina

  • Selina Khan January 16, 2016, 9:33 pm

    Hi Elizabeth,

    Such a traumatic thing for you both to go through! I am so sorry that this happened. It is possible to find closure but you will have to work at it. I’ll share what I can to help you and maybe this will see you through.

    First, I want you to know that animals, just like humans, do sometimes meet with very traumatic ends to life. Sometimes they are seen as opportunities by that soul to experience that particular ending, balance something that is out of balance in a larger sense, or give those around them opportunities to grow and become stronger. It is also sometimes chosen this way so that we avoid longer hardships if a different way was chosen. For example, perhaps your dog chose a quick ending to save you the suffering that would have happened from a long an drawn out illness. Every case is different.

    So the first thing I want you to know, is that this ending may have been your dog’s choice and is a part of a larger plan of the universe that often, makes no sense to our human understanding such as it is.

    In order to find closure, you may want to do a ritual that honours the life of your dog and recognizes or does these things:

    1) the love that you had all through your dog’s life
    2) the new relationship and love that you have for your dog now that he is in spirit
    3) the willingness to let the death be in the greater wisdom of the universe by forgiving yourself, your dog, God, or whoever you need to
    4) the willingness to remember the times that you both had in the past that were happy
    5) an invitation to connect with you more tangibly now he is in spirit form.

    That ritual could be lighting a candle and sending out heart energy to him. Writing him a letter and then burning it to let the energy release (or put it under your pillow or in a keepsake box). Or putting his photo in a locket and wearing it. Anything at all that is meaningful to you can be enough for you to start to find peace with this.

    Of course, the most important thing is to be gentle with yourself, and be patient through the process.

    My heart to yours,
    Selina

  • Selina Khan January 16, 2016, 9:52 pm

    Hi Jack,

    I’m so sorry to hear about Tigresse! It sounds like you did everything you could in your power to help her heal. Sometimes it doesn’t matter what we do. When it’s their time, they go.

    From what I understand, thyroid conditions are difficult to treat. In humans often time it takes many adjustments to find the right dosage and medication and this must be adjusted overtime – this is what I’ve heard from my clients. I can only imagine how difficult it is to diagnose and treat an animal for this same thing as they can’t communicate to us how they feel and tend to tolerate pain in a different way where we don’t always see they are sick until they are very sick.

    I feel shaving her may have made a small impact on her but not a large enough one that it would have made much difference to her lifespan. I feel she was on her way out and preferred to go as she was not feeling well. It was just her time.

    Unfortunately, they do feel and suffer as we do. They go through emotions, physical sensations, just like us. However, they tend to be unconditionally loving and more present in the moment – something we could learn from them.

    Tigresse may indeed come and be a sort of guide for you. It is possible and it is very possible to travel with her in your meditations. I once asked my Miso cat in spirit to show me where she likes to go. She took me to a lovely field – showing me all in my mind – where she loved to run. Since she has passed, I have learned she has a very funny sense of humour.

    Keep practicing and the connection will grow. They are never far away and always hear our words and feel the love in our hearts.

    All the best to you,
    Selina

  • Selina Khan January 16, 2016, 9:57 pm

    Hi Mike,

    So nice to hear your updates! Sounds like you have really opened up and I love hearing about Middle C and Simba. Don’t be discouraged about your Mum. There are reasons that you may not be perceiving her or she may not be making her presence know to you right now. Keep working on it and be open to getting signs from her in different ways.

    All the best,
    Selina

  • Jack January 20, 2016, 12:29 pm

    Hi Selina,

    thank you for your comments and advice. Although it might have been Tigresse time to go, one part of me still feels that I let her down. I know it is an human EGO thing, but I would feel relieved to know exactly, if indeed it was her time, especially which such a tragic ending which I cannot shake in my head and my heart. I will keep trying to communicate with her to get answers, to heal my heart and ease my conscience. And perhaps know how she feels now…

  • Dianne January 27, 2016, 6:55 pm

    I am struggling with the death of our pug Sophie. She was 15 years old on the 22 Jan/16 and we euthanized her on the 23 Jan/16. She had no more muscle in her backend but she had an appetite till the end, and this is what bothers me. I feel so guilty that I took her life. It was like me playing God. I am very angry at God as i prayed he would take her in her sleep and he did not. Now I feel he will punish me for putting her down. In 2011 we put down our other pug Spud who had congestive heart failure and he too did not go in his sleep. I have felt the guilt with him. My life seem so empty without him and her. I can not understand why God does not take them if they are ill and puts it on us to do it. Also will our pets blame us for taking their life?

  • Selina Khan January 28, 2016, 5:10 pm

    Hi Dianne,

    I’m sorry to hear that you had to put Sophie down. 15 years sounds like a good ripe age for a pug and I’m sure you gave her lots of love during that time.

    You ask a very big question and one that I don’t know that I can answer for you fully. Why does God allow suffering? Why doesn’t he take everyone when they are in a peaceful state and at the end of their time here? I can only tell you my own beliefs that I’ve developed from my experiences and understanding of how things work.

    I know that we are meant to be caretakers of the earth and each other while we are here. That includes being loving but also compassionate among many other things. Sometimes the most compassionate thing to do is to end suffering for animals when they are sick or in pain and will not recover. It does not change the reception of the spirit of that animal when it crosses.

    I also know that our human minds know very little compared to the all-knowing mind of God. There may be things that happen here and we just won’t understand the whys of it all until we have our time to cross over and are in a place where we can gain that wisdom. I trust that God has reasons for allowing all things to transpire. At the same time, we also have responsibility to do the most loving and compassionate thing for all concerned.

    For some people, they choose to show compassion by ending the suffering of their pet. We are the instruments of the Divine and we also are here to learn and remember our true nature which is loving. This is done through many different experiences, both perceived as good and bad. Release the guilt and know that you did what you could for her, all from love.

    In all my years of my work, I have never connected with an animal spirit that comes through with blame. Sophie has understanding and love when she comes through. Don’t block that connection now with guilt. There is no need to.

    Many Blessings,
    Selina

  • Gosia February 10, 2016, 11:50 am

    Dear Selina,
    Over a week ago my beloved cat Zen died. No word can express how much I loved him and miss him. We have found each other. Zen was my first pet, before he came into my life only half of my heart was opened….It was something unexplained about him, many times I joked he is a human in cat’s body. Since he died myself, my son and my partner can feel his presence around us, he scratch the door when they are closed ( he did this when he was alive), we can smell him around the flat (the smell usually stay no longer then 10-20 seconds). We all believe Zen is still with us but I am wondering if my grief is not stoping him to cross to the other site. Does he knows how much I love him?
    PS. I do apologise if the grammar is not the best, english is not my first language.
    Kindest regards
    Gosia

  • Selina Khan February 10, 2016, 6:21 pm

    Hi Gosia,

    My condolences on your loss of Zen. It sounds like he is very strongly around the family. Psychic smells don’t tend to last more than few seconds although in a few cases it is much longer lasting. Your grief has not stopped him crossing. This is not his spirit saying that he is stuck. This is his spirit saying “notice me!” “I’m visiting because I want you to know I love you and haven’t forgotten our connection!” He knows as much now as he did when he was alive the amount of love you have for him in your heart. I hope you know as well how much he returned the same.

    All the best and blessings to you,
    Selina

  • sasha February 12, 2016, 2:28 pm

    Dear Selina,
    I am struggling to cope with the death of my cat skipper who died in december i feel a lot of guilt and anger towards myself and the vet as he only went in because of a bad tooth she said it was loose enough to take out there and then she gave him an injection and pulled it out she didn’t prescribe anything and i am kicking myself for not asking he was an fiv cat whom i loved with all my heart, i should have given him an antibiotic myself but didn’t he was drooling and a little more sleepy than usual but he was always a drooler i kept an eye on his tooth no pus to be seen so to help his immune system i gave him echinacea to boost it, he was sleeping in my girls room they said he was eating but now i’m not so sure, you see in the meantime my youngest brought a kitten so we had to keep him separate because of fiv, i was working at the time and i feel like i neglected him taking what the girls said for granted, anyway a week and half later he stopped eating i took him to vet she gave him antibiotic and pain relief by the time i got home he was bleeding from injection sight and wouldn’t stop, so i phoned another vet she came and managed to stop bleeding but said it’s not normal to do that , by this time i was force feeding him basically he just didn’t want to eat so i took him back they put him on drip as he was dehydrated but by lunchtime she phoned to say he was dying i just got there in time to say goodbye even though she said he won’t recognise me i spoke to him but i can’t get image out of my head as he gasped for breath and meaowed i thought he must of been in pain, after i took him home to be buried in my father in laws garden, after a few days passed i was looking at the paper when she pulled his tooth out and realised she hadn’t given him antibiotic either that day was so annoyed this could have been avoided and he”d still be here today i think he got blood poisoning on the inside and i didn’t have a clue, i was focusing on the tooth not knowing what it was doing to his insides my family don’t understand me as i keep crying and waking up in a panic in the morning realising he’s not here i feel i let him down i would like to know if he’s ok and if he forgives me for the mistake i made or is angry at me for letting him down i don’t know if animals think or react that way but honestly i always told my girls he was like a human with a soul he was so gentle and loving i never thought i’d loose him that way sorry for writing such a long comment but it helps to talk to someone, thanks sasha.

  • sasha February 14, 2016, 3:35 pm

    hi selina i sent you a question did you get it by any chance?
    thanks.

  • Selina Khan February 16, 2016, 11:08 am

    Hi Sasha,

    Skipper is Home now. There is no anger there – only love and understanding. Skipper feels rather happy and calm to me. I don’t get any sense of anger, resentment or blame. In fact, he seems to be too busy chasing butterflies, moths, and lying on his back in the sun. And yes, he had a wisdom that was very deep so I am not surprised at how you sensed his intelligence as that of a human. His eyes used to look at you and it felt that he was talking to you – which he was, telepathically. I hear purring. This is a happy cat. He has no blame for you, so you can let all the self-blame you have for yourself go.

    Try opening your heart to him without feeling so guilty and you’ll see what I mean. Your guilt and anger will skew what and how you perceive. There is only love, and purrs from him to you.

    Many blessings,
    Selina

  • Selina Khan February 16, 2016, 11:14 am

    Hi Sasha,

    Yes I just replied on my blog to you. It takes me a few days to get to my blog comments as I am typically busy with clients who book appointments with me. Thanks for your patience.

    Selina

  • Mike March 2, 2016, 11:44 am

    Hi, I’ve been reading this all morning and it’s very comforting. My wife and I had to euthanize our terrier mix Casey yesterday. My wife got her 12 years ago, and when we were married 6 and a half years ago, Casey and I became very close. Yesterday was brutally difficult, but she had a pretty aggressive cancer in her nose and last week had gotten to the point that she wasn’t always interested in food, and would have bouts of trembling from the pain. We held off until yesterday because Sunday was beautiful and we took her to the park and the woods one last time, something she loved. Last night felt so empty without her, even sick, laying on the couch with us, or sleeping in our bed. I fully believed that she would be waiting for us when we get to the other side, but last night found myself wondering, “Where is she right now?” , “Can she see us yet, and does she know what happened, and why?” It’s great to know that she’s no longer suffering, and has hopefully crossed over to a happy place where she can watch over us until we meet again.

  • Selina Khan March 2, 2016, 3:05 pm

    Hi Mike,

    I’m glad that you found the blog comforting. It’s always so hard for us when they transition, but sometimes it’s the best gift we can give them when they are in so much pain. You may feel her in the kitchen sitting at your feet as you prepare food and you probably will also feel her jump up on your bed too. Those are the things that come through. She is very much seeing you, visiting you and her awareness is unencumbered around what has happened to her. It is a very natural transition for them.

    Many blessings,

    Selina

  • Mike March 3, 2016, 11:25 am

    Thank you so much Selina.
    I wanted to share with you that I received a message today. First, a little background. My dad passed away last April, and has communicated with me several times. Usually its been in the way of music. After his funeral, the song on the car radio when I started it was “Taxman” by The Beatles (he was an accountant.) I had an instance not long after that of the car radio station changing without me touching it to a song about a man passing. There have been a few other occasions too. I love music and feel that my dad knows its the best way for me to hear him.
    I still talk to him once a week or so. When I knew Casey was near the end, I asked him to watch for her, and take care of her when she crossed over, so she wouldn’t be scared or lonely, (She was a very emotional, timid dog, but very sweet).
    Well this morning I was driving to work very early, the sky was very clear, and there was a beautiful crescent moon, and dozens of stars in the sky. I quietly said, “Casey, are you up there in the stars, can you see the moon?”
    I walked into my office, and the first song on the radio was “See You On The Other Side” by Ozzy Osbourne. I couldn’t believe it. The lyrics to me feel like they were written from the point of view of the one that has passed, and the line that really got me was…”I was down but now I’m flying across the great divide. I know you’re crying but I’ll stop you crying when I see you on the other side”
    I feel like it was my dad sending me a message that he had Casey and she was ok. I shared this with my wife, she said it made perfect sense. I don’t remember a lot because its kind of a blur, but when we were holding Casey and talking to her as she was passing, one of the things I said to her was “see you on the other side”.
    I feel really blessed today that I received this message of comfort, and though I still miss the hell out of Casey, and my dad, its great to know they’re together.
    Thanks for reading, I just needed to share for others to read, and hopefully give them the comfort that was given to me.

  • Kelly March 4, 2016, 10:42 am

    Hi Selina,

    It has been very comforting to come across this site and read all the stories that are so similar to mine. We just lost our cat of 10 years. Her name was Skins (she had bald patches when she was a kitten, my Dad nicknamed her and it stuck lol). She was a portly, funny, calm and sweet russian blue. She started declining in health just after the new year. Lethargic, not eating much, losing weight. We thought she was constipated but on her second vet visit they discovered a tumor the size of an orange in her rib cage area. We were absolutely devastated. We suspect she was in more pain than she was letting us know of. We gave the okay to do the removal surgery but the vet called after
    they opened her up and told us the cancer had spread everywhere in her little body and her liver was failing :.( We allowed them to euthanize her while she was still under anesthesia.

    Our hearts have never been more shattered. My father is elderly and also going through cancer at the moment and he’s never loved an animal quite as much as he loved Skins. He was always very protective of her and he may be blaming himself in some ways. He’s taking it extremely hard as is my mother and I. Skins also has two sister cats she has been with her whole life – Flop & Monkey. She and Monkey were inseparable best friends. I’m worried sick how she is going to handle this as time goes on.

    I’ve cried for days praying that Skins understands how much she is loved and that we were trying to help her get better. All we wanted was to have her back home and healthy. I’ve wondered constantly did she know that she was dying? Did we do the right thing by her? Is she scared? Is she upset that we were not there when she passed under anesthesia? I feel so guilty for this. Is she with any other cats? Can she give me a sign that she is okay and happy and still here with us? Should we have brought her out of anesthesia and let her come home and pass? The vet said it wouldn’t have been more than a day left either way but I feel like we didn’t really get the time to say goodbye. I honestly didn’t expect that she wouldn’t come home again after the second vet visit. I didn’t want her to die at the hospital but we also knew she was in a lot of pain.

    As a family, this is one of the worst things we’ve ever been through and it’s just getting harder. I desperately need a sign from her. I don’t think our hearts will ever be whole again 🙁

  • Selina Khan March 7, 2016, 2:45 pm

    Hi Mike,

    That was very powerful! Bless you for sharing that with us.

    All the best,
    Selina

  • Selina Khan March 7, 2016, 2:56 pm

    Hi Kelly,

    I’m so sorry to hear about Skins. It’s hard to have a pet transition, and harder still when we feel we weren’t given the time to say a proper goodbye. It’s the every day moments of love they remember and not the final moments. That is what connects us to each other. In a sense, there is no need to say goodbye as they are just in a different form. I know for us, as people, we feel we want to let them know with all of our hearts how much they mean to us. We want to have that goodbye moment as it helps us to find some peace. You can still do that now, when Skins is in spirit. I know it’s not the same as you won’t be able to perceive her as when she was in a body, but she will be able to hear you just fine.

    As for bringing her home for one more day to say goodbye, I think that you gave her the best gift by letting her not experience more pain for her last few hours in a body. That took a lot of courage and selflessness.

    You can ask for signs from her. Ask her to let you know in some what that she is around. You’ll see by reading other people’s comments that they have been able to communicate and perceive them after they transitioned into spirit. But even if you aren’t ready to receive right now, know that she is very much aware and connect to you and those she loved.

    Many blessings,
    Selina

  • Molly March 10, 2016, 8:16 am

    My dog of 15years passed over a few weeks back, he was/is my best friend. I felt I knew him and had a life with him before. We were thick as theives and I miss him with all my heart. Most nights s I believe he visits me in my dreams as I do dream of him in heaven. Sadly I have not felt or sensed his presence since his passing, I dont understand as we were so close I just want to see or sence him to know hes around and okay.

  • Roia March 12, 2016, 10:09 pm

    Hi Selina,

    Thank you to you and to everyone who have commented on this site about their beloved pets. Chini, our little white Maltese, was our first dog and she was two months old when my husband and I got her. It was love at first sight. Chini was with us for 16 years. She was a gift from God and she did nothing but love us unconditionally. Chini was a strong soul, a fighter, she beat cancer twice, pacreatitus, kidney disease, and a month before she passed, we found out about the aggressive lymphoma. The treatments had helped shrink the tumor but the chemo lowered her red blood cells too and there was nothing that could be done. I spent a lot of time watching her during her last month, and knew during her last two days that she was leaving us. I would always wake up and turn her little body over in her last couple of days to make sure her skin was not getting sore, especially her last day when she couldn’t move at all. On Sunday, March 6, 2016 at 1:30am, I saw her lift her head a little, I removed her blanket to turn her on her other side, but as I held her, I felt her last heart beat and called my husband. I layed her down gently and saw her take her last four breaths. I cried my eyes out next to her for hours. She was my most loyal friend and my baby girl (we had our son when Chini was 11). After about an hour of her passing, i went to the bathroom to wash my face even though I couldn’t stop crying and I very distinctly felt something touch my right ankle and a micro second later heard Chini wining like she did when she was younger. I walked out and told my husband, Chini was just here. A couple of days later, still crying my eyes out, I was in the shower and noticed Chini through the shower curtain, sniffing around on the floor and then she jumped on the counter… then disappeared. That same evening, I also saw her come through a couple of bushes by the grocery store.. I had never gone near that side of the parking lot but there I saw bushes, in Chini’s form, saw her three dots, her beautiful eyes and nose and one of her arms was extended toward the sky. She was telling me that she is with God now. I just hope and pray I did not stop her heart from beating when I picked her up. The other part of me tells me, since it was one of my wishes for her to go naturally and in my arms, maybe it was her moment of passing anyway and it was her loyalty that led me to hold her.. I wish she could come back one more time and give me one last kiss .. I miss her terribly.. I smell her bed so many times a day.. I hope she’s not alone and knows how much she meant to me and how much I will always have her in my heart.

  • Roia March 13, 2016, 12:43 pm

    And I really hope she’s not alone or lonely. Days after she passed, I asked my grandmother to be with Chini. I’ve tried to connect with her spirit on my own but I don’t know if it’s my mind or if it’s really Chini. I miss her everywhere in our home..

  • Selina Khan March 14, 2016, 2:52 pm

    Hi Molly,

    I’m so sorry to hear about your best furry friend’s passing. I know the hole that we feel when they first cross. No matter how much spiritual knowledge and belief we have, we do miss them so.

    Right now, because of your grief, he is visiting you in your dreams when it’s easier for him to connect with you. Try to be patient. Just because you can’t sense him know, doesn’t mean that you won’t when you are ready to. Even when we really want to connect, sometimes the pain of connecting as we remember them more as not being here stops us from perceiving. It doesn’t stop them from checking in on us or watching or being aware of us.

    All the best to you,
    Selina

  • Selina Khan March 14, 2016, 3:16 pm

    Hi Roia,

    Most of it is not your mind. You just need to trust and accept what you perceive. It’s one of the first things I teach my students when we learn this kind of work. The more you trust, the more you perceive. Don’t analyze when you perceive or the mind gets in the way. Just let it be and be in the moment of the experience.

    I am very touched by the loving care you had for her all the way through to her last breaths. Love knows no separation.

    Blessings,
    Selina

  • Sylvia March 14, 2016, 8:33 pm

    Selina, my thanks for putting up this page. I know it must be a help and comfort for many who grieve their deceased animal companions.
    I posted at the top of the page here back in middle of May 2012. That was strange. Only 3 weeks later my dog passed away. I had no idea she was about to leave when I posted. (She had hemangiosarcoma of the spleen)
    I had NO idea if they live on….pass into Spirit…or if there was an after-life for ANY of us! I was a ‘hopeful skeptic’.
    But what happened after was profound. She returned to show me she was fine, happy, and was full of love for me.
    That was how I learned that they do indeed live in Spirit.
    The first time it happened I got a sudden rush of love from out of the blue, and a powerful sense of her character and energy. It was a sense of great peace, joy, and tremendous love.
    I never imagined I was ‘psychic’ in any way at all…but I think we can sometimes underestimate the intelligence and spiritual abilities of our animal friends. I feel it was her own abilities which managed to break through the disbelief which I had surrounding me. She managed to make contact, and I think that took a tremendous amount of energy to do. I thank her so much, and thank the love of God.
    Her contacts came not once but many times.
    Two months after she left I had a sudden and unexpected out-of-body experience when I actually touched her, and she was happy and just as she was when in the peak of health. That was the most amazing thing that ever happened in my life I think!
    Whether she will be there to assist me to pass over or not I have no idea. But from what I’ve experienced over 4 years of her not wanting to lose touch, I am pretty certain she is waiting for me to ‘come home’ when it is my time.
    In my earlier post I had NO IDEA these things were going to happen, and I have learned a lot in this past 4 years, thanks to her.
    Blessings on your Soul, little dog.

  • Jeremy March 30, 2016, 8:34 pm

    Selina, I was wondering if I could ask you to contact my precious cat Cleo. She is so special to me because we spent the last four years before her death together. I had an unexpected medical event in 2012 and she was with me through my recovery. I would have been so lose without her. I was giving her a lot of care for her various medical conditions right up until the end.

    I was giving her 12 hour medications, trying to get her to eat several time a day, getting her steroid shots every 6 weeks for her asthma. The only thing I could not get her to do was sit still and allow me to administer subcutaneous fluid therapy. I could have given her maybe another year of life if I would have forced this therapy on her. I couldn’t do that to her though as she hated it. She had kidney disease and thyroid disease. She was all but skin and bones by the time I made the decision to put her to sleep.

    I hate death. I hate that I put her to sleep and that I didn’t try harder to keep her alive longer. I think she was suffering but I can’t really be sure. I am sort of spiritually inclined, but I have blocked a lot of it. I kept having this feeling that she was going to fall down and break her leg and die in pain. She was wobbly and falling down a lot. She was also strong headed and would jump onto high furniture and try and do things that were dangerous. I also could not confine her to one bedroom as that would have been extremely cruel.

    I was not with her when she was put down. I couldn’t bare to watch her being destroyed. I had a family member take her to be put down. Now I feel like I let her down. I feel like I just threw her away like a piece or garbage. I had a few dreams of her. One of the dreams I was in the vets office with her, petting her as she passed away. I don’t know it if it guilt, or if perhaps my spirit was with her as I was asleep at the time she was put down. I had another dream that she jumped on my bed and walked over me and nipped my hand like she used to do. I was wondering if Cleo is mad at me for having her put to sleep, if she was in pain, and if she has come to visit me recently? Any help you can provide would be greatly appreciated.

    Jeremy

  • Selina Khan April 6, 2016, 3:24 pm

    Hi Jeremy,

    Many people go through the same thing as you when putting a loved pet down. When our beloved animals are sick, often we want to keep them alive for as long as possible because we can’t bear the thought of being without them. Animals are kind and unconditionally loving by nature. Cleo is not holding a grudge or mad at you. That is why she came in spirit to nip you on the hand – a love nip and not a bite of anger. That visit is only one of many that will continue. You are still very much connected.

    You ask if she was in pain. Yes, there was some discomfort that I feel for when she was alive. I feel her back and joints as well as a sense of being “off”. However, her time of being put down I feel gratitude and love. I don’t feel questioning. It’s as if she knew you couldn’t be there and that was okay with her because from her perspective, she was going to come see you later anyway – just now in spirit which, by the way, feels very natural to her. And she has fun with it, being in spirit, that is. I hear there are places she likes to go where her body wouldn’t take her but can now go easily in her spirit form.

    Trust your intuition. She connects with you – that is not your guilt or your mind.

    Many blessings,
    Selina

  • Christine April 16, 2016, 12:13 pm

    I lost my cat of 12 years four days ago. She had been puking everyday for several weeks but still in happy spirits.so I had taken her to the vet and did a bunch of tests nothing to alarming was found so they put her on steroids to help bring up her white blood cells. The next day I had difficulty giving her the steroids but was finally able to by syringe. By now she had become extra picky with her food and on this night she didn’t want to eat anything. The next morning I woke to give her her steroids and was looking for her around the house and when I opened my basement door she was right there at the bottom of the stairs and started struggling up then with a terrible howl of pain. She was losing movement in her back legs. Within a half an hour I rushed her to the vet with her curled in my lap and in so much pain when I got there they had found a blood clot and they tried to get IVs in her but it wasn’t working and they said she would pass on her own soon so I had her euthanized to stop her pain. She had beautiful blue eyes and they had just gone black and I’m worried she didn’t even know I was there in her last moments and that she didn’t know how much I loved her. I had recently been fostering some pups and another dog and have four of my own so had not given her as much attention as she deserved. I can’t seem to forgive myself for not taking her to the vet sooner even though I know that there was nothing that could of been done anyways. I don’t feel her spirit around me and being in my house is horrible as there are so many places she should be and habits that I am used too. I know that there will never be another cat just like her and I don’t even want another one because I don’t want her to feel like her areas are being given to another. I’m devastated and so lost without her.

  • Nathan April 20, 2016, 1:09 pm

    Hi Selina,

    My sweet soulmate, Cable, just passed away last Thursday, and I can’t stop crying. His energy was one of a kind, and I often found myself telling people that after this life, if my soul were to roam the dark universe by itself and could only have Cable’s energy to hold on to, it would feel complete for eternity. And I truly mean that. But for now, I can’t get over it. It happened so suddenly. Within 24 hours, he was playing outside, goofing around to make us laugh as he always did, broke his hind femur, and had to be put down when the doctors thought it was 88% due to osteosarcoma (bone cancer), and that the operation wouldn’t heal properly. He was 13 1/2 and had a weak hind, so amputation would have been absolutely horrible for him and his dignity. He never let me pick him up except that day. He always wanted to do things for himself. Please let me know what he thought during these last 24 hours and what he is thinking now. I really need to know, if you can connect with him. He was a brown brindled greyhound with the cutest little white face and human, understanding eyes. He would tilt his head when we spoke to him, as if to say: “No! Really?”….please help. Email me if you can.

  • Piedad April 21, 2016, 11:08 pm

    Yesterday I had to put my 12 year old beloved cat baby Baxter to sleep, I had sensed something was wrong for about 3 months but try to convince myself he was okay, he showed sings of depression but then would bounce back to his normal self and that led me to believe that he was alright. Two days ago I came back from work and he greeted me as usual I picked him up and kissed him and place him in the bed for him to jump as I proceed to get his food ready. When he came to eat I noticed his front right paw was bent as if he injured it, so I thought, but then he started to cough, breath heavily, and purr in distress so me and my husband took him to the emergency clinic. What we thought was an injured leg ended up being a congenital congestive heart failure, a cloth reached his front right paw. We brought him home hoping he will recover, at first my husband saw some signs of improvement and was hopeful, Baxter tried to walk around and was purring for about 15 minutes but then he laid on his side and looked so depressed that we could not bear to see him suffer. We were told that his quality of life was going to diminish, that his heart was very enlarged, his lungs filled with fluid and that his heart could throw another clot at any time, leaving him paralyzed or blind, or that he could experience traumatic cardiac arrest. We didn’t want him to suffer, we wanted to have his other senses intact so he could recognized us and hear what we had to say to him and we did not wanted him to experience a traumatic transition, so we agreed to put him to sleep yesterday at 4:27pm his birthday would have been on April 27, what a coincidence. I said good bye to him, I pet him look into his eyes and told him how much I loved him, how much he mean to me, I thank him for these 12 years of joy, happiness and tendernes she gave us, I told him that he was welcome to come any time in any way, that I wanted to meet him in this life or the next and that we were traveling companions forever, and that I will love him forever. I couldn’t bear to see him go, so my husband was there to give him comfort in his last moments. We are brokenhearted, there is a whole in our hearts we can hardly breath, we hardly can eat, I eat something today just for survival. We miss him soooo much. We both feel guilty, specially my husband for not giving him enough attention. I gave him more attention and care though I still think I could have give him more. I keep insanely asking myself, was I a good mom to him, does he know he was and is deeply love, was he happy with us, I need those answers. We are devastated, I can hardly stop crying I ask him to show me signs that he is okay, to come visit with us, to put his paw on my feel like he usually did, to purr and knead, I want to feel him, see him, hear him, see him in my dreams, hug him…..I LOVE HIM. Can he hear me? is he here? I want an answer. I want to keep in contact with him always. I’m getting his ashes soon I got a Kitty Urn I will pace it in my living room and lit a candle right next to it, can I still communicate with him?. Would I meet him again when I die or before. I LOVE YOU BAXTER PLEASE COME BACK!!!!!

  • Selina Khan May 2, 2016, 6:45 pm

    Hi Piedad,

    I’m so sorry to hear about Baxter. It is so hard to let them go when we love them so much. Yes he can hear you. He does visit. The ashes are not important to him but if it helps you, you can keep them by you. It’s a reminder for you – that’s okay – but know that he doesn’t have an attachment to them. You can learn to communicate with him. It’s the same as communicating with any spirit. You just need to practice. You’ll have contact with him again before you die, and several times. When you are on the other side you will be with many, many spirits including your beloved Baxter.

    He knows how much you love him. He knows you did not want him to suffer. Don’t doubt this. His love for you hasn’t stopped just because he left his body. Give it some time to sense contact. Just because you haven’t sensed him yet doesn’t mean he hasn’t come to check on you.

    Many blessings,

    Selina

  • Selina Khan May 2, 2016, 6:51 pm

    Hi Nathan,

    I’m sorry for the delayed reply. I’m not always able to get to answering comments in the time I would like. I am so sorry to hear about Cable. Such a sudden turn of events. He did his job and brought joy and love into your life. You also showed him so much love and when he crossed, I feel that heart connection so strongly between you. I feel he was preparing in his own way to cross in the last 24 hours. I hear him communicating with a loving being in spirit that would be very much like an angel from the vibration I feel. I also feel that he was trying to send you love through all of this. On the other side, he shows himself free of pain and running with a flower in his mouth. He wants you to know that he remembers so many things – you used to carry him like a baby, the way he would try to talk to you in answer with his eyes. Other flashing images. He is very much at peace and will always be connected to you.

    Blessings,
    Selina

  • Piedad May 3, 2016, 10:12 pm

    Dear Selina:
    Thank you very much for your words, they bring comfort to me. I’m still very sad and feel empty without my Baxter. I do know that our bodies are just temporary vessels that carry us through this material world to learn from experiences.

    I talk to my Baxter everyday, I tell him how much I love him, how much I wish for him to be happy and healthy and surrounded by white warm loving light at all times.

    Some events happened that make me believe the universe is letting me know he’s alright. Two days before my baby passed I was with him in the balcony reading my herbal book. Baxter was sitting peacefully as always observing nature. As I was reading something caught my attention and his, a red cardinal bird came flying from a fence to the roof rim of my balcony, Baxter instantly stood up and observed the bird as it flew back and forth tree times. The last time he was in the rim of the roof that cardinal made a lot of noise as if it was stumping or hitting the rim with his beak and it lasted for a while 30 to 40 seconds. I thought that was strange because I’ve sat in my balcony many times before and that never happened, and Baxter was completely captivated by this bird.
    Two days after my Baxter passed, my husband was working in an apartment doing a work order, when he suddenly noticed that there was a print behind a door. He opened the door to discover a painting poster of two cats looking through a window at three cardinal birds that are on top of a tree. One of the cats resembles my Baxter, is a spit image of him when he was about a year old, and the other cat resembles his brother Sylvester who passed away 6 years ago. He commented with the tenant lady (a 92 year old sweet woman) about the resemblance and the tenant told him, that’s Baxter, he has joined with his brother and he is okay now. When my husband came back later to pick his tools up, the tenant lady had put the print by his tools and told my husband that she wanted him to have the print. When I saw the print, I couldn’t help but to notice the resemblance and I instantly thought about the cardinal we saw in the balcony as if he was a messenger of changes to come. I cried but somehow felt that my baby is okay and that I couldn’t rule that out as a mere coincidence. We now have the print in out place and we ordered a special frame for it, it is a beautiful image of his younger years.

    I will continue talking to my Baxter and telling him how much I love him and how much he means to me. I will continue greeting him, telling him good night and good morning. I still have his bowl out and serve imaginary love food for him to eat. I will meditate more and be open to sense him. Baxter has my forever love.

    I wanted to share this with you Selina, tell me what you think.
    Thank you very much.
    Sincerely
    Piedad

  • Piedad May 3, 2016, 10:20 pm

    Selina a note from the print of the two cats looking at the cardinal birds, One cat the one that resembles my Baxter is an orange tabby with white in his face a short nose and green hazel eyes just like Baxter and the other that resembles his brother Sylvester is black and white with a black patch around his nose and hazel eyes as well, just like Sylvester was. It is quite a resemblance I don’t think is a coincidence.

    I look forward to hear from you.
    Thanks again Selina
    Piedad

  • Selina Khan May 11, 2016, 6:26 pm

    Hi Piedad,

    Others have told me of similar things as you experienced with the cardinals. I believe that there are many layers to this existence that are meaningful and that nothing is without reason. Looks like Baxter is sending a message to you. What a beautiful sign!

    Thank you for sharing this.

    Blessings,
    Selina

  • Brenda May 31, 2016, 4:54 pm

    We lost our Milo about 3 weeks ago from heart failure.We had to make the hard decision to put him to sleep because he was not doing well out of oxygen and started to decline quickly.I miss him and my family as well.A day after he passed the lights at our house would flicker on and off in the morning for my mom.She was really attached to him and it will be hard to get over losing him.A few days later I dreamt of him in the oxygen cage he was in at the er surrounded by white bright light.And over time I dreamt of him again that he was in my moms arms hugging eachother.She was dressed as a poodle for some reason.He was a miniature poodle.Soon after I found a picture of them together hugging from old memories we had.Could this be a way of him reaching out that he is okay?I hope one day I could see him again just to let him know how much we loved him.It’s hard to get over.

  • Selina Khan June 2, 2016, 1:47 pm

    Hi Brenda,

    I’m so sorry to hear about Milo. He has already reached out you to let you know that he transitioned and is doing well. Your dreams of him hugging your mom is his way of sending his love. Nothing is by chance – the photo is confirmation that this is him around. Take solace in knowing he is fine, remember you all with love, and visiting you in your dreams.

    Blessings,
    Selina

  • genevieve June 5, 2016, 3:17 am

    Hi i just lost my fur best friend two days ago, she passed because of liver damage. ( the vet said ) Last night i had a dream, that seemed so real.. The same movie that was on when i fell asleep was on in the dream, me & my boyfriend were laying the same as i was in real life.. I don’t quite know if it was a dream, i want to think it was real life.. It’s just everything seemed so real. In my “dream” my dog was on my chest and i was hugging her while she licked my face. I told my boyfriend ‘ look it’s annee give her a kiss ‘ he couldn’t see her, but he told me ‘ you can’t keep living this way ‘ .. I didn’t want to let her go and when she would try and go back down to my feet i would pull her back and she would nibble at my hands. As if she could only visit for a certain amount of time? It felt so real, i didn’t want her to leave. I then opened my eye’s, but she wasn’t there of course. I feel so sad, she took a piece of my heart with her. I put all her stuff away in a box hours before i had the dream. I left her pictures out. Home doesn’t feel like home anymore. She is being cremated Monday. Will her soul rest the right way even though she is being cremated? ( the truth please ) I also want to know what the dream meant? Was she visiting me? I’m wishing she will visit me every night.. That dream made me feel so happy. Will she really be waiting for me when it’s my time to pass? If so, i can’t wait. Gosh i miss her so much.

  • Selina Khan June 13, 2016, 11:29 am

    Hi Genevieve,

    I’m so sorry to hear that you lost your best friend. Your dream is a visitation. It is not uncommon that spirits visit us this way. In this case, she wanted you to know that she is okay. I know you want her to visit you all the time, and she will come around you but she can’t always be with you. She has her own path and her own purpose. They don’t forget the people they are connected to just because they leave their bodies.

    Her spirit transitioned with ease. Do not worry about cremation. The spirit is no longer in the body by the time they get to cremation. For animals, they cross very quickly after death.

    Genevieve, you’ll have more that this spirit connecting with you when your time has come. Be easy and know that you never lose your connection with her.

    Blessings,
    Selina

  • Larry June 17, 2016, 2:58 pm

    Hi Selina
    I am putting my dog down tomorrow. I had him blessed with my pastor today and I have asked my mom to come for him tomorrow. She passed in 2004. I want to see him again and I pray to see him again. Do the blessing of pets help or are they just to make us feel better.

  • Larry June 17, 2016, 2:59 pm

    Btw my dogs name is Zeus. He is the best dog one could ever ask for.

  • skye June 21, 2016, 1:07 am

    Hi selina, a week ago i lost my dog milo he was hit by a car infront of my house i am finding it extremely hard to cope i am moving houses im scared he wont be able to find me will he know where i am will his spirit come with me or will it stay where he lived with me before he died.

  • Selina Khan June 22, 2016, 8:04 pm

    Hi Skye,

    Please don’t worry! Milo is connected to you, not your house and will visit you wherever you are.

    Blessings,
    Selina

  • Selina Khan June 22, 2016, 8:17 pm

    Hi Larry,

    I’m so sorry to hear that it’s time for you to put Zeus down. Blessings, prayer, love from the heart – it always helps. It raises vibration, brings in more light, connects the energy to Divine energy. Bless you for doing that for Zeus!

    Take care,
    Selina

  • CR June 22, 2016, 9:40 pm

    My 16 year old cat Tommy passed on the 18th of June. Although we have been expecting this due to his age, my husband and I are devastated. Can you please tell me any specific message he has for me ?

  • Cherry June 26, 2016, 6:22 pm

    Hi Selena – first off, thank you for taking the time to answer everyone’s posts here and sharing your gift.

    Our 4 year old Yorkie, Trixie, passed away five weeks ago. She was killed instantly after being hit by a car and left on the road. We had adopted her from a rescue last Thanksgiving, so we only had her for a short 7 months, but she was our little light and we are still devastated from the sudden loss.

    I understand now that she was only meant to be with us for a short time, but it doesn’t make it any easier. I just feel so connected to her. Since her passing, I’ve heard her padding around in our room a few times. Two days ago, I was deeply grieving her and asked her if she could visit me in a dream because I was missing her so.

    That same night, I had a dream: I was in my bed and the bedroom was dark. I then felt something walking around my feet, very solid. I wasn’t scared. I looked and it was Trixie on the bed, and she had a bluish/whitish glow that was surrounding her. I didn’t think I would be able to but I reached over and was able to pick her up. She felt so solid in my arms. I stroked her head, gave her hugs and I even kissed her belly, like I used to. She played with me, nipping at my fingers. I could even feel her little teeth. My husband walked into the room, and at first I thought he wouldn’t be able to see her, but I passed Trixie over to him and he was able to hold her too.

    I know in my heart that this was a visitation and her way to let us know that she was fine. This has given me some comfort even though I still wish she was with us physically. I just hope that this isn’t the last of her connections with us. If you have any other insight on her, I would be so grateful to hear. I feel that she is my guardian angel, and I know that she will be waiting for me when it’s my turn to pass.

    Blessings to you.

  • Selina Khan July 4, 2016, 4:34 pm

    Hi Cherry,

    I’m so sorry to hear about Trixie. It is always a bitter sweet ending when they go quickly – glad that she didn’t suffer for long with her passing, but wish you could have had more time with her.

    What a wonderful way to connect with her! And I love the way you had time to hold her and show her how much you love her. You are right, this was a visitation and such a gift. Her message is that she’ll come back in your dreams again, but maybe in a different way than as before. Also she says to notice if you think you see her out of the corner of your eye or hear her when you are falling asleep. That’s her communicating with you that she is really there, loving you right back.

    Blessings,

    Selina

  • Selina Khan July 8, 2016, 3:07 pm

    Hi CR,

    I’m sorry for the wait in reply. I don’t get to my blog comments as frequently as I would like due to my client schedule. First of all, I’m so sorry you lost Tommy. 16 years is a blessing for a cat to live with people who obviously adored him. CR, I don’t have anything really specific coming through. I am being given memories of things that he liked and a feeling of contentment. I see certain flashes of images from him – a window, lying on the floor stretched out, kneading a lap — cat sort of things. I believe he loved his life and it was mainly due to all the spoiling you did of him as he does show me quite a lot of cat toys. Really what’s coming through is happiness and love with flashes of memory.

    Know that he is fine and remembers good times very well. Blessings to you both,

    Selina

  • Lisa July 21, 2016, 6:26 pm

    Hi, I lost my Peyton a day ago. She wasn’t eating and the vet. Had stated that she dehydrated . After them keeping her for 3 days. My sweet baby passed away by herself . I have guilt for having left her there. I was given false hope that she would be back with us in 2 days. My heart hurts because I didn’t get to be with her when she passed. I love you and miss you my sweet payton.

  • Harriette July 31, 2016, 3:19 pm

    I buried my 18 year old cat Mikal last night at sunset,
    in an armload of fresh catnip, rose geraniums, green
    walnut and lots of buddleia flowers. I had his mother
    and brother who both passed years ago. He was the
    strongest cat Ive ever known, in heart & soul.

    Im curious that I haven’t seen him around. It took me
    3 days to get on with it – he was such a beautiful, handsome
    cat, I really had to wait until I no longer felt he was waiting
    inside his body .. which took 3 days. He is not suffering now
    and is hopefully free – where could he be? I hope to God
    his consciousness is not in that hole.. even tho it was the
    best hole anybody could have been buried in.
    He will be much missed around here. He was so intelligent.
    He was also a very big cat. We miss him terribly. Even the
    plumber who was here this morning said, Where’s Mikey?
    He was so much a person..

    We buried him deep, so the coyotes won’t dig him up.

    Any thoughts you may have would be appreciated, as you know, one always has misgivings – – there were some regrettable mistakes along the way.

    Sincerely, Harriette

  • Rachel August 3, 2016, 9:10 pm

    Hi Selina.

    I lost my 3 month old Kitten,(who i rescued as a day old infant) Cinco last night in a tragic accident. I loved this cat so deeply; as if she were my own child. I was getting ready for a night out with friends, and threw a pair of jeans in the dryer to quickly try and get the wrinkles out. I then decided on a different outfit, and left the house – leaving the dryer on. Roughly 10 minutes after I left, my partner called me screaming bloody murder, ‘you left cinco in the dryer, you killed cinco’ over and over. She was so badly burned and a piece of her tail broke off from her body. I had killed my baby.

    I am so so guilty and cant help but blame myself. I try to believe things happen for a reason, but I cannot understand how this could happen to my sweet baby.

    Do freak accidents have a purpose? I am just trying to begin grasping what happened.

    thank you.

  • Selina Khan August 8, 2016, 5:36 pm

    Hi Lisa,

    It is so hard to have our loved companions cross over. They are never alone when they cross. Sometimes the spirit of the animal chooses to go in a way where it will not be a burden to those that love them. Every one of them has different gifts that they share with us according to who they are and why they are with us. Peyton did not delay in crossing and was much loved and received. That you were not there in person in no way changes the bond between the two of you. I doubt she would have wanted it any other way. Let your guilt fade Lisa. Peyton does not feel it’s necessary as she felt you would understand that it was done for the best interest of you.

    Many blessings,
    Selina

  • Harriette August 10, 2016, 11:54 am

    Its now been two weeks since my Mikal died in my arms,
    after almost 18 years ! I haven’t seen or felt a hint of his
    presence! I guess he is free at last . Now he can play
    outside to his heart’s content.

    But Im worrying about him. His mental state was very bad
    in his last 3 months – could he be lost – or worse yet, not
    knowing he can leave his body now? Why wouldn’t he come
    sleep with us or at least visit? I was so used to his demanding yowl; he was a very big cat, very long like a panther . He was highly intelligent and very communicative. He had a lot of care in the last year when his thyroid spiked.

    If you get any glimpse of my Mikey Moodles- I would like to know where or how he feels, if possible. He had a long hospice and I hope he isn’t holding a grudge about my care. He was so strong but this last year he really became weak and I gave him all my attention. He was the last of all his beautiful family line.

    Thank you Selina for putting up this site, I hope you can get a sense of Mikey from these words. He was the light of our lives, long black siamese . . . my Mr. Handsome.

    Harriette

  • Selina Khan August 12, 2016, 11:51 am

    Hello Harriette,

    Yes, I know very well the grief and questions that one goes through when a cherished one passes. Bless you for providing such a lovely ceremony for Mikal in the way you rested his body. The spirit does not stay inside the body for such a length of time after death. You may have felt a residual signature that was still present within the cells until it shifted.

    When I have connected with animal companions to see what they do in spirit form, it varies. All of them have told me that they check in with their loved ones. Some of them have shown me other animal spirits they connect with. Others incredible places in the universe that they romp around and explore.

    Mikal comes across as not only strong, but very wise and centered. Also very protective of you and would have been so in body as he continues to be this in spirit. Never mind the regrettable mistakes. There is no judgement from him. In fact, you would be surprised to know that he has a sense of humour around some situations.

    One last thing Harriette. Give it some time and look for signs from him rather than his full presence. You may indeed sense him again in spirit around you, but he has more ways of communicating with you than that.

    Blessings,
    Selina

  • Selina Khan August 12, 2016, 12:03 pm

    My dear Rachel,

    I am so very, very sorry that you experienced this. One of the hardest lessons to learn in this universe of ours is to forgive ourselves. Some believe that we choose certain experiences before we incarnate so that we can learn and grow, and this can be in our experience of death. Some of the challenges of life seem to have no explanation of why we would want to choose suffering and pain. It makes no sense to us.

    No one has all the answers. I do know that we are here to experience, grow and find the truth which is love. I also know that NOT ONE of the beautiful animal companions that go into spirit has EVER come through with hate or blame. They are a pure soul of love and are here to teach us how to unconditionally love ourselves and others. We are also a pure soul of love but have forgotten how to connect with that.

    In my opinion, there are no such things as accidents. All things have a purpose whether we understand them or not.

    Cinco is whole and where she needs to be. I see her in a place of love where she is showing herself licking a paw and sending heart love and purrs to you. She has served her purpose for you and you have served a purpose for her. Have you thought that perhaps this is why she choose to connect with you? You both have reasons for experiencing this. Honour her presence in your life by taking this experience as a gift to work with that can teach you deeper love and acceptance of your beautiful Self.

    Blessings,
    Selina

  • Selina Khan August 12, 2016, 12:10 pm

    Hi Harriette, I just replied to your last comment. It takes me a while to get to them sometimes. My suggestion to you is to wait a little until you are settled. Sometimes we can’t perceive because we look too hard or are blocking with feelings of guilt. When I connected with him, he was very much in his beautiful state of wisdom and grace, strength and love, protectiveness and a little bit of that confident ego too, but not in a bad way – more so that he’s been around the spiritual block a few times! You can connect with him – let the mind rest from it’s worries and sense with your heart.

    All the best,
    Selina

  • Harriette August 19, 2016, 10:51 pm

    Thank you Selina , very very much, for offering me a glimpse
    through the veil. It was almost like getting a postcard from
    him.

    My empty heart is full.

    Harriette

  • Kimberly M. O'Neil September 6, 2016, 9:59 pm

    Hi Selina,
    I’m Kimberly and just recently lost my baby SCOOBY on 8/16/2016 . It was the worst day ever n still is I keep going back to that day he was killed by a friend mean ass pitbull dog n just beat my self up about why did this had to happen to my Scooby-Doo doo n why that day he had to jump out my trucks window n run into my friends backyard knowing there was 2 bigger dogs that were mean as hell .I don’t understand why he had to die like that cuz he was such a strong, smart ,loving protective n not afraid of anything .but he die in honor of trying to save me n my bf from the pitbull that day but as I told my bf to go get him before he comes in the gate so my bf was about to get Scooby then I remember that our friend haves to walk us out cuz of his dog being mean so we both ran inside so we won’t get hurt the not even 1min later we heared the pitbull get Scooby as we went out side I was flipping out screaming no no my Scooby get him to my friend as my friend was trying to save my baby it was too LATE I seen it all my baby was just trying to protect us n he had to be the one who got hurt . Still this day I always think of him say his name out loud n sing the songs I use to when he was alive I just wish he was still here with me not even his sickness he witch was “Mange” could killed he was a strong boy , sometimes I think he with me but then I start. To get sad n cry about why my Scooby just had to get his self killed like that but now I have a brand new puppy n his name is Thumper n he helps sort of but Scooby is always my baby .sometimes it seems like Scooby is Thumper here’s why I think Thumper act soooo much like Scooby in many ways looks at me in a way I see Scooby when I sing the Scooby Doo song that he like Thumper get all happy . So Selina I don’t if I’m crazy or not but it seems like maybe Scooby knew that his sickness from the Mange was to much for his body it was wearing down slowing n how people use to call him Ugly I had to die in order to over come his Mange so he got him self kill that to come back into thumpers body to remain well n with me here on earth for more longer next to my side , that’s what I feel sometimes cuz when the day I got Thumper I just got out my truck walked towards him n said hi puppy’s in a baby voice he jump right toward me I grab him n he licked my face n was so attached to right now first night he wouldn’t leave my side for nothing it been going on 2 1/2 weeks I got Thumper n he is such an amazing puppy like Scooby n still attached like Scooby was when he was alive so if u can tell what u think about what I just wrote can u let me know plz it will brighten my day
    Ur friend ,Kimberly O’Neil

  • Daniela September 21, 2016, 9:44 pm

    Hello. I lost my Sandee 6 weeks ago. He was my everything. My love my life my heart for 19 yrs and 4 months. A beautiful wheaten Cockapoo. I miss him so much and cry everyday and night. I want to know if he is ok. And that I will see him again. As well if he will visit me. I am moving and will that make a difference. Pls help me. I suffer such horrible sadness and pain. I can’t get over his loss. He was with me thru a very hard time. Over and over thru the years he gave me unconditional luv and kicked up my tears while I loved him back so much. We were and always will be soulmates..how can I move on.. I’m so lost and devastated. I feel I will never stop crying. He was my life. My child. As I has no children..he was my baby boy. I need some peace. Is sandee ok. And us he with Me. Even if I move,?? Pls help. thank you. Daniela.

  • Selina Khan September 22, 2016, 12:05 pm

    Hi Kimberly,

    I am so sorry to hear of how Scooby died. What a brave soul he is protecting you! Bless you for doing all you could for him with the mange and for loving him just the way he was. I feel that while Thumper is going to be another protector for you, it’s not Scooby’s spirit coming back to you in a new puppy. Thumper may sense your need for comfort and has the most loving and trusting heart. As you are a good soul yourself, your hearts will connect easily and it may remind you of your relationship with Scooby. Scooby has already been around you in spirit and you can take comfort in knowing that your connection will never be lost. In the meantime, enjoy your new companion and blessings to the both of you.

    Take care,
    Selina

  • Selina Khan September 22, 2016, 12:40 pm

    Hi Daniela,

    My heart goes out to you. I’m so sorry that Sandee could not have as long a life as we do. The pain and loss that you feel does eventually heal. The time for healing is different for everyone. Please be gentle with yourself during this time.

    Sandee will always be able to find you. That means wherever you move to, even if it is to another country, he will know exactly where you are. There is a connection between the two of you that is stronger than any distance you can imagine.

    When I check in for you, I feel happiness, love and a wanting for you to know that he is there – all from him. He is absolutely fine in his spirit form and happy where he is now. The wanting to let you know that he there feels intense from him and I believe that he is trying to reassure you by his presence. Don’t worry if you can’t feel him around you yet. Sometimes grief can block our perceptions and sometimes we don’t trust to open ourselves up to the possibilities because we feel the loss inside instead of focusing on the love when we connect with them. Give yourself some time.

    Blessings,
    Selina

  • Vera September 27, 2016, 6:26 pm

    Hello selena.i read all the posts and i feel better now.i lost me white labrador retriever riko 6 days ago.he has cancer and for 25 days from happy gog he in the last day was so bad that we put him to sleep.i love him soo much.he was 9 years old.my child is 3 years old and he ask for him.i teĺl him that rico is with hos mother in heaven and is happy and no pain.i see the tears of his eyes when he watch the pictures of rico.i can t believe that he is no longer with us.i fèel my heart is with hole in the middle.most of the time i can not cry because of my child and keep the fèelings inside me.is very hard.i want to know if my baby riko is ok.i want to know that he is healty and happy.i ask him to come in my dreams.please selena give me some hope that he is in better place now.i ask my grandma to help him pass.i love and i miss him so much.

  • Selina Khan October 3, 2016, 4:20 pm

    Hi Vera,

    It’s always so hard to let go of our beloved pets. I’m so sorry that you had to put him down. You are correct – Rico is in a place with no pain and much happiness and love. I feel that he is absolutely fine, and his energy feels warm to me.

    Bless you,
    Selina

  • Piedad October 6, 2016, 9:41 pm

    Hi Selina, It’s been almost 6 months since I lost my beloved Cat Baxter, he was and still my child, he wasn’t just a pet for me, he was my son, my quiet and comforting companion, and I miss him so much. For the first 4 months I felt his presence often, he came in dreams, visions, number sequences, music, images, through nature in red robins and twice as a humming bird coming out of nowhere when I was asking from a sign. Lately I have not received that much communication, about two weeks ago a neighboor’s cat that I was fond of and named Creamy passed away and that brought back painful memories and much longing to be with my baby Baxter. I was wondering if you can feel how he is doing? Is he happy where he is? Is he healed? Is he able to feel my love? are my daily prayers being heard? I pray everyday that the Universe/God surround him with pure, white, warm loving and healing light now and always, provide him always with loving and caring company, a sense of happiness and well being and protect him at all times. I also ask to be reunited with him at the proper time. If you can see or sense something about my Baxter, if he has a message for me, please let me know I would really appreciate it.
    Thank You Selina
    Piedad

  • Selina Khan October 28, 2016, 10:37 am

    Hi Piedad,

    I find that my own beloved cats are sometimes around at some times more so than others. They are both in spirit. However, I can connect with them easily by calling them in. We are always connected just as you and Baxter are always connected. You don’t have to pray for him every day. It’s nice that you do, but he is fine. You don’t need to wait to be reunited with him as the relationship has only changed form and not quality. However, I do understand what you mean – you want to be able to tangibly interact with him as you did when he was still in his physical form. Yes, when you are no longer in physical form yourself, you will be able to perceive him more tangibly as you did when he was in his body. He’s quite the male cat! I hear him tell me, “She’ll be fine. Tell her I love her.” Also he showed me an image of socks for some reason. Did he play with socks or look like his paws had socks on them?

    Blessings,
    Selina

  • Piedad October 28, 2016, 12:22 pm

    Oh Selina, your message brought tears of joy…Yes my Baxter played with socks very often and loved to put his head inside shoes and play with them…so odd I had troubles finding one of my socks this morning and I thought of Baxter….this happened before I read your message, You are right he is quite a male cat, poised and proud and I love him forever.
    Lately I feel I want to adopt a cat, I wonder if it is okay with Baxter. He didn’t accept any other cat around him, I wouldn’t like to hurt his feelings….I want him to know that he is and always will my my love, my baby and my perfect companion.
    Thank you for your message Selina.
    Piedad

  • paul October 29, 2016, 12:24 pm

    We had to put are baby Susie Q to sleep on Thursday October 27,2016 my wife and I are on the verge of having a nervous breakdown we are so upset and empty without our Susie Q she was having seizures every 10 minutes apart and the medicine the vet was giving here was not working she went so fast we had her for 9 years she was our baby how do we let go and know she is ok and at peace just so confused about what has happened will she stay here with us all the time and can she hear us talk to her we had a very close connection with our poodle she would sleep above our heads every night.

  • Radica November 10, 2016, 5:11 pm

    Hi Selina, It’s been three weeks since I lost my beloved cat Tigger. He was more than a pet to me and I miss him so much. I felt his presence twice in dreams, but lately I have not received any signs of him, I was wondering if you can feel how he is doing? I just hope that he is okay and can still feel my love for him. I would really appreciate it if you can communicate with him and if he has anything to communicate with me.

  • Becky Tarling November 12, 2016, 9:15 pm

    On Friday the 11th novemeber 2016 we lost our amazing little girl holly, she still very much herself that night and by 2am she took a turn for the worst, we rushed her down to the vets and they did everything they could but she was 11 years old and was a caliver King Charles spaniel so she was an amazing age for her bread.

    But this afternoon, at the same time she died the night before, we found a white feather on the top stair of where she used to lay.
    Is this a sign telling us she’s okay? We miss her so much

  • Lily Cvetanovski November 14, 2016, 2:53 am

    Please tell me that my baby is ok I just lost him two days ago
    I am heartbroken and devestated

  • Selina Khan November 16, 2016, 10:38 am

    Hi Becky,

    I’m so sorry to hear of Holly’s passing. I’m glad that she didn’t suffer. Yes the feather was a sign for you to know that she is fine. The placement, the object itself (white feather) as a sign of spirit was very much meant as a symbol of communication. Take comfort.

    Blessings,
    Selina

  • Vera December 11, 2016, 5:59 pm

    hello selina is almost 3 months ago we lose our love rico.i miss him soo much.today we adopt small baby dog.but i feel myself giilty , like i left rico behind.i can t stop crying and is dificult for me to give him the love that he need.i want to know if rico is ok with the new pet .please help me.

  • Virginia Smith December 16, 2016, 12:58 am

    Well I would certainly like the answer to this one it is Major strains I have a mother who died when I was 22 years old I am now 70 and I’ve dreamt about her many times but my younger sister died on Monday December 12th 60 years to the day that my father died that’s seem very strange to me I live in Florida what I have left of my family which is one brother one sister live in Pennsylvania prior to my sister’s death in October I planned a trip to go back to Pennsylvania one last time because for years she’s twice she’s almost died and my brother is not well either I’m I also had to put my English Bulldog to sleep back in 2007 he was my heart and soul since I have no parents left my ex-husband and I divorced after 30 years and he was what kept me wanting to live however I am very strongly Episcopalian and I I would have liked to have gone with him now my sister aggravated me that back in September to the point that I decided not to go 2 Pennsylvania and maybe the Lord was protecting me from something I wouldn’t have been able to take and maybe she did it to protect me because I’m a crier and I tend to never stop grieving all the a certain song on a certain word a certain sound and bring back thoughts of my deceased parents never my older brother for some reason I don’t know why maybe because even though he was my brother and I love him I love him and still do he was a hoe Coke was a hard-core alcoholic from 16 years old on 250 years old when he died at age 50 I have never dreamt about him and I do not know why would actually love to hear from you but I never have and how to finish my story I had an endoscopy today the 15th of December the day that my brother died in 1989 and I did not consider it fair is that the baby of the family should go before myself who is the oldest surviving nor was the oldest surviving Monday morning I got a call that my sister had died and my brother told me that she was full of cancer and that she made him promise not to tell me I’m a worrier I’m a crier I-10 to grieve quite often and I don’t know if she was angry with me because we had an argument over her daughter who in my opinion is worse as worthless as tits on a tomcat and put a half-assed obituary in the paper she did not even know where her mother was born that was in the obituary totally wrong her mama was dead only hours before she was in her house looking for insurance policies Deeds of money you name it she treated her mother like s*** forever needless to say I have nothing good to say about her my niece well last night was the night before I was to have an endoscopy today and I was not able to take because of medical problems with my back and that’s that’s why I was not able to take what I normally take to help me sleep and get rid of the pain and sometime after midnight I finally went to sleep and I don’t know if I was dreaming or awake however I’ve been crying for days since Monday morning and I really did not want to come out of the anesthesia given in to do the endoscopy I neglected to take my high blood pressure pill I neglected to take my allergy pill the prior night and I would have been just as happy if I would have ended up in the Sarasota Memorial Hospital Where is the facility that I had my Endoscopy in would take me to execute or because I have a living will and a do not resuscitate 2 take it from there don’t know what time it was but I live in on the first floor of a 12-story building and I thought I was awake it it sounded like a light knock at the door and I pretty much ignore that but was either trying to get away car was awake I’m not sure and all of a sudden I heard my own prior to that between the light knocking at the door and my English Bulldog who is dead it felt like either the building or the bed shook the next thing I heard my English Bulldog barking beside my bed not allowed just like he did when he needed to wake me to take him outside and then it either felt like I did not see an outline I didn’t see anybody identifiable but there was somebody at the bottom of my bed and they were talking but I did not understand what they said and I set up in bed and turned on the light and I look down at the floor and of course my English Bulldog was not there nor was whomever it was standing at the bottom of the bed speaking to me however I never understood what that person said well I do not believe in reincarnation I just believe in the Lord and everlasting life and I’m really very confused I feel like my English Bulldog is with me all the time I feel like he’s never left me I know he died but I feel like he has stayed here and loved me and protected me since the day he died I at times have turned and looked in the back seat because he was like I could feel him still back there the backseat of my car I would surely love to know why this happened I feel like I felt my bulldog’s presence since the day he died but he has never woken me barking in any tone and I have had many dreams come to me that actually came true I’ve had this kind of thing happen since I was 16 years old not all the time just on occasion and I don’t understand even if I were asleep why I didn’t know who the person was at the foot of my bed I didn’t see a form and when I turned the light on and set up in bed of course my Bulldog was not beside my bed and nor was whomever that was standing at the bottom of my bed talking to me so I blew it off and for some reason I just now thought about it again I guess the anesthesia has worn off but I didn’t have anesthesia last night did not even have the sleep aids that I normally take because I wasn’t allowed to butt I was very careless about the instructions for the endoscopy after I came out of the anesthetic I had an oxygen come over my face instead of just the oxygen support I had before I went under and I’ve said many times to the Lord that I didn’t think it was fair is that the baby of the family go before me the oldest and I’ve said it out loud to other people they also told me that they had trouble controlling my blood pressure my blood pressure went up strange thing is several years ago when I had anesthesia for surgery my blood pressure dropped to almost dead 59/40 something my blood pressure at the general practitioner of the week before was 107 over 76 which is good maybe a little on the low side would shortly love to know who it was and why my Bulldog was involved I don’t know if it was my sister my brother my father my mother I didn’t recognize the voice it was something like mumbling but it was like somebody was at the bottom of my bed talking to me but I couldn’t distinguish what they were saying and my religion tells me that it’s the Holy Spirit speaking to me which is what I believe however I felt it very strange that I heard my Bulldog bark out loud for the first time and someone was talking to me but I do not know who it was but I knew it was his bark and butt don’t know how to find out who was that the bottom of my bed or what they were saying so I’m guessing that was a because I wasn’t supposed to know what they were saying I’d love to know but I’m guessing is that I will never know what the person at the bottom of my bed was saying and why I was woke by a knock at the door at that time of the morning which doesn’t happen where I live in the middle of the night and then – to have my Bulldog beside my bed extremely strange wouldn’t you say and again I would certainly love to know who it was and for what reason it happened probably would have figured it out if I could have understood what the person at the bottom of my bed was saying and it leaves me wondering if my Bulldog was there to protect me as he always did totally baffled here this is Stranger Than strange in past dreams of visitation in my dreams from Mostly my mother it was very clear even after I woke up on what happened and what was said this is majorly baffling to me

  • Basia December 17, 2016, 4:46 am

    Hi Selina
    15 years ago I had this obsessive instinct to get a puppy. I looked in newspapers, kijiji, and finally a place called Rainbow Park (no longer open). It is there that i found Gizmo, a brown and white peekapoo, that looked more like a maltipoo. I lost my younger sister 3 years earlier and Gizmo helped fill my heart with unconditional love. He was my buddy. My love. Got me through many challenging times before I met my husband, my soulmate who loved Gizmo as much as I do.
    Gizmo was so special, everyone that met him instantly loved him. He would bring his favourite toy to people he liked. We tried to continue to include him the same way as each of my children were born but I often felt I wasn’t able to give him the same level of attention…but loved him as always.
    Up until he was 14 he still looked and acted like a puppy. Then this past year his eyesight and hearing diminished and he was deteriorating. He became irritable and didn’t like to to be touched. He died 3 days ago. My husband noticed Gizmo couldn’t get up. We bathed him as a family and Gizmo let us pet him again. I woke up at 5:30am on December 15th with this feeling that “it’s time” …I checked on Gizmo and he was sleeping. Then I heard him make a noise. I saw him on his side and he looked like he was running in his dream, really excited. I remember he used to do that as a pup and I smiled but then I realized he must be seeing something. I was petting him and talking to him. He woke up and tried to sit up. He looked right at me as though he could see me again. He let me pet him for a minute and then laid back down on his side with deep slow breathing and then his last few breaths. I asked my sister to help him cross over and any angels that were there. I/we love him so much.
    I keep waking up and trying to feel that he is ok. I just had a vision of my beautiful sister cuddling Gizmo in his arms. Is this possible? Does he still have his favourite toy there? (silly question I know but he loved it so much…I kept buying him new ones all these years)
    He was and always will be family. My husband and I are in tears constantly

  • Selina Khan December 18, 2016, 3:47 pm

    Hi Basia,

    Thank you for sharing such a beautiful experience of this vision with us. I’m sorry to hear that Gizmo did not have more time to spend with you. He crossed with all of your love surrounding him and I know that is a true gift to give.

    Yes it sometimes I have seen spirit holding the spirits of animals in their arms. They let us know this way that our beloved animals in spirit are with those that love them on the other side. I do believe that Gizmo fondly remembers his toy. Some things that are earthly like the toy would be very much in his memory associated with happy times and with people who played with him and loved him. On the other side from what I understand, there are even more beautiful things to experience. It’s not that they forget, but that they may not have the need to manifest there what they enjoyed on earth.

    The toy may become a symbol for you as a way to remember and connect with his spirit. You don’t need it to connect with him, but sometimes it’s easier for the mind to have a tangible reminder.

    Blessings,
    Selina

  • Selina Khan December 18, 2016, 3:56 pm

    Hi Virginia,

    Sounds like you have gone through a lot in your life. When I ask spirit about your experience, I feel that your Bulldog is watching over you in general. I feel that your Bulldog was more conversing with this spirit than protecting you. The knock was probably to get your attention first so you didn’t miss out on what you perceived. The spirit seems to be neutral in the visit without a pressing message. Trust that you received on some level what you meant to get and if the message is important enough for your conscious mind to hear that spirit will get it to you.

    Blessings,
    Selina

  • Selina Khan December 18, 2016, 4:24 pm

    Hi Vera,

    Rico is not jealous. He is fine with this new dog being with you. It gives him comfort to see you allowing yourself to love another. He is positive, not negative. And I am to share that his actual crossing out of body to the light was easier than you might think.

    Allow the time you need to grieve.

    Blessings,
    Selina

  • Diane January 9, 2017, 10:39 pm

    My cat, and best friend, died in May 2013. She has visited me at times which always brings me happiness and tears. Last night I was thinking about her, and as usual, filled up with tears for my loss. Early this morning, I opened my eyes at 5:30 and there she was at the bottom of my bed….floating. I blinked my eyes, and then blinked them again, to make sure what I saw was real. It was. I called out to her and she simply disappeared. For some reason, even though I have gone on with my life, I just can’t get over her leaving my world. She was a Katrina refugee and came into my life unexpectedly and willfully. We connected and gained trust for one another quickly. For some reason that particular pet stole my heart and soul. This morning, the look on her face was not as soft as it always had been. Her eyes glared at me. Do you suppose she wants me to toughen up and get over her passing once and for all? Other people seem to have a much easier time with the loss of a pet than I have had. Being an astrologer, I will share that I’ve had Pluto in the first house since 2006. Everyone I loved has passed during the last 10 years. Am I projecting onto this animal’s spirit which may make her feel responsible for me? I want to find peace for her and me.

  • Selina Khan January 19, 2017, 4:55 pm

    Hi Diane,

    I am so sorry to hear of your cat’s passing. There is no set time as to how long it takes to fully grieve our pets. Sometimes we miss them for a very long time in a way that makes us feel sad. With time, we move to a place where although we still miss them, we remember the connection and focus on happier memories.

    It feels like you are projecting onto the image of her spirit. Sometimes when we feel guilty or have a thought that is not aligned with self-nurturance and someone in spirit visits, our mind can bias how we see them. I don’t feel that there was a message about toughening up. Be gentle with yourself.

    Blessings,
    Selina

  • Piedad April 21, 2017, 2:20 pm

    Selina, It has been a year already since my beautiful Baby Baxter passed away, Even though my pain is not as raw as it once was, I feel sad and depressed and miss him very, very much. He has contacted me a few times, I wish he would communicate with me more often. Baxter my handsome orange tabby cat of 12 years was my son, I always treated him like one and my feelings for him are forever. I truly love him dearly and I think about him and even talk to him everyday. I was wondering if he has a message for me, since you are gifted with mediumship. If you can sense him can you please tell him how much I love him and how much I wish for him to be happy and surrounded by much love, experiencing happiness and contentment wherever he is, comforted by the surroundings that please him and by loving and caring company at all times. I’d so much appreciate it.
    Thank you Selina for sharing with us your wonderful gift.
    Piedad

  • Selina Khan April 28, 2017, 6:15 pm

    Hi Piedad,

    A year already? Time flies, doesn’t it? You don’t need me to tell him how much you love him. He knows. He would like for you to let your heart be lighter so that it helps for you to hear him when he visits. He is happy to see you when he visits you. And he is very much surrounded by love where he is, and your love that you send him is part of that.

    I know it takes time to feel more joy than sadness when we remember our dear pets. The more you remember all the good times, the more joy comes into your heart and makes it lighter. He will still visit you whether you are up or down in your emotions, but I know he wants you to know how good he is where he is now and there is no need to worry. He says he hears you loud and clear.

    Blessings,
    Selina

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